This is such a true statement, and one that so many just don't get. Acceptance isn't dependent upon knowing the language. What is most important is giving value to the language and the cultural values encountered. For instance, asking a deaf person what they would prefer, instead of telling them what they should do.
As a hearing person, I have always felt accepted by the Deaf, even prior to my becoming fluent in ASL. But I approached the people with a "Help me understand." attitude. I went into it asking that they teach me their way, rather than demanding that they do things my way. Consequently, I have never had problems feeling accepted inside of Deaf Culture. I would say the same thing holds true for sallylou as an HOH person. She is one of those people that is open to differing perspectives and views, and that comes across in the way she presents herself. Therefore, she has no problem being accepted by Deaf Culture.
