Hoichi...So strange, hubby and I were just talking about this. We both decided......
Cremated but then the urn burried. We did that with my dad and that is what my mom wants too. She will be burried in the same plot as my dad.
When my son died we felt best to have him cremated. We thought having a small caskett would just be too much for everyone. After the service his ashes were scattered in the church garden. Well we moved........On one of our visits, there was a chain link fence around the garden because the whole thing had been torn up. I can't explain the feeling of such losss....again.
I like having a place to go to feel close to my dad. I definitely will need that with my mom.
Definitely an organ donor if possible.
