Without acceptance comes unrest. And anger comes with unrest. He'd better learn to be happy with himself. Otherwise he's gonna live an unhappy life as usual.
Because of my parents, I have been mainstreamed into hearing culture. Since they did not want me to sign at all while I was growing up, I learned to speak proficiently. As a result, I felt a certain disconnect from my HoH/Deaf peers whenever I tried to communicate with them. This has irked me over the years and I haven't figured it out until the past year; that I understood very little sign language. Since then, I have been wanting to bridge the communication gap and did not know how to address this. After several discussions about it, I have decided to take ASL 1 this summer at a community college.
I will admit that I have been upset several times about my deafness when I was growing up. It was very painful to be made fun of because of my HoH. Over time I came to accept myself for who I am. I am glad that I made the decision to personal acceptance. Since then, I have been at peace with who I am and it feels so good to be free to express myself without limit. I am very thankful that my girlfriend has been very supportive of me throughout this process. She's the one who helped me realize what I am capable of and encouraged me to do more and she's the best in the world!
And really, there is nothing wrong with silence. I simply create music in my head.