What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learnt from your past relationships?

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What’s the biggest lesson/s you’ve learnt from your past relationships?

The biggest lesson I have learned is never settle for second best. Never stay with someone who doesn't love you for who you are. If your gut feeling says don't trust them, don't trust them.
 
I have learned that although a relationship asks for some compromise, don't let that compromise turn into self-sacrifice.
 
Nika said:
I have learned that although a relationship asks for some compromise, don't let that compromise turn into self-sacrifice.
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That's a good one. Compromise is good but not complete self-sacrifice. You lose who you are, that's bad.
 
same here i found out that my ex didn't love me long ago enough to keep me in relationship he just dumped me so i learn my lesson
 
moonflower said:
same here i found out that my ex didn't love me long ago enough to keep me in relationship he just dumped me so i learn my lesson
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I am sorry to hear that your ex dumped you. Maybe it's a great thing, you will find someone who will really love you. :)
 
Yeah, I will never go out with girl who is unable go to bar club (required 21+). Oh yeah, she have to be mature with about straight decide without difficult decide. Comeon, make up your mind and move on!

Yep... In these day, I'm being caution.
 
PowerON said:
Yeah, I will never go out with girl who is unable go to bar club (required 21+). Oh yeah, she have to be mature with about straight decide without difficult decide. Comeon, make up your mind and move on!

Yep... In these day, I'm being caution.
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LOL. I can understand caution. You want a girl who is mature enough and isn't wishy washy.
 
Clear up any lingering perceptions before you start to perceive the person as such. For instance, holding this in after a few years into our relationship, she once thought I was not into being monogamous, which she was very well wrong about.
 
S.O.B. said:
Clear up any lingering perceptions before you start to perceive the person as such. For instance, holding this in after a few years into our relationship, she once thought I was not into being monogamous, which she was very well wrong about.
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You have a good point. Clear up any perceptions in the beginning.
 
Never again with PTSD! This is the hardest lesson I have learn. These people with PTSD have unstable predictions.

Second, I should have wait and take time.

Now, I am ok at least and not with PTSD freaks.
 
Dogs will die.

Kids will leave home.

Focus most on your husband or wife as you will hopefully have them the longest.
 
I have learned what heartbreak is. I have learned to difference between love and lust. I have learned not to depend on the significant other too much. After my divorce with my ex. I have learned to stand on my own two feet, that I can survive on my own.
 
I've learned that it is best to start on a clean slate after a bad fight because if one were to use or to bring up a "bad" part (from the past) to use against each other in an argument, It will only lead to worse stuffs.
 
Jolie77 said:
I've learned that it is best to start on a clean slate after a bad fight because if one were to use or to bring up a "bad" part (from the past) to use against each other in an argument, It will only lead to worse stuffs.
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You are right. When there is a fight amongst a couple, whatever happens or is says, leave at that fight, never carry it with you in the future.
 
Show appreciation for each other and not take each other for granted.
 
I've learned a lot from my past relationship.

- fights are not needed
- no more small second, third, and fourth chances
- the world does not revolve around her
- don't let her friends decide what our relationship should be like
- just because I have a friend that's a girl doesn't mean I can't talk to my friend any more
 
The lessons I learned, he needs to be direct with me not keep me hanging on for a long time. Its uncool to play with someones emotions.
 
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