Wel, I'll tell ya....all it took for my boys was growing up in an alcohol and drug addicted home (their parents)....hence, they finally were taken out of the home, but the oldest boy had already started "acting out"....and was an "at risk" child at age 11 when I got him.
As for me, all it took was seeing my own father an alcoholic all the years I was growing up.....then having 3 siblings become alcoholics also...(2 have recovered).....
Really, I don't thank the "man above" enough who has given me the common sense when it comes down to drugs and alcohol....Sure, I've taken a few puffs off of a joint in my life, even drank wine....that all stop about 15 years ago....
And I do realize that responsible parents should not have any alcohol/drugs in their home if they have children around....that's my opinion of it. I see nothing wrong of them going out to a party and having a few drinks, but I have never and will not never drink any alcohol in front of my children.
