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http://www.cnn.com/2003/WORLD/asiapcf/south/07/07/india.infanticide.pt1/index.html


Grim motives behind infant killings
Monday, July 7, 2003 Posted: 3:49 PM EDT (1949 GMT)



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In the first of a two-part report examining infanticide in India, CNN's Satinder Bindra looks into the social environment that can drive parents to kill their baby girls.


Expensive, albeit illegal, bridal dowries threaten many parents of girls with bankruptcy.
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Pt. 2: State adopts infants' cause


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• Live from the Headlines, 7 p.m.: In the first of a two-part report examining infanticide in India, CNN's Satinder Bindra looks into the social environment that can drive parents to kill their baby girls.

SALEM, India (CNN) -- Fifteen hours after a baby girl was buried alive by her father in central India, police managed to pull her out -- and she was still alive.

Police say the baby survived because she had been buried among stones and there was enough space for her to breathe.

Every year, thousands of baby girls in India are murdered by their own parents.

Sociologists blame such killings on a widely held Indian belief that girls are an economic drain because families still have to pay expensive dowries at the time of their marriage.

Authorities have said that over the past few years, more than 4,500 female babies in India's southern Salem district alone have been killed -- by their own parents.

Social scientists say the severity of the problem of selective abortions is so bad, the country's gender birth ratio shows there are 880 females for every 1,000 males.

Modern technology has only worsened the phenomena. While infanticide has long been practiced, female foeticide is a relatively new phenomenon.

Over the past decade, inexpensive access to ultrasound technology has led to many families determining the sex of an unborn child and then aborting it if it is found to be female.

New laws and an aggressive intervention program mean fewer girls in Salem are being murdered.

But the practice of female infanticide continues.

Officials in this south Indian city have put the word out to parents they will treat every suspicious infant death as a homicide.

Police, however, are still finding the shallow graves of babies and say more than a hundred female children here are killed by their parents every year.

A Salem woman sits crushing grain as she tells CNN she has to live the rest of her life with the pain and guilt of knowing she murdered her own new born baby girl.

"I wanted to keep the baby. But people around me said, 'You have three daughters. Why do you want to have yet another one?' How can I kill her, I asked?"

"They suggested giving the baby something that would kill her. So I got some tobacco leaves, mixed it with water and gave it to the baby. She died.''

In the southern Indian district of Salem, such murders are fairly common.

In this region alone officials say that over the past year about one hundred female children have been murdered by their own parents. Some were asphyxiated, others poisoned or starved and many just left to die in sewers and garbage dumps.

Adoption scheme
Sociologists blame such killings on a deep-rooted gender bias.

Compared to boys, girls are believed to be an economic drain because it is still customary to pay the husband's family expensive, albeit iillegal, dowries at the time of their marriage.

So harsh is the dowry system, it can bankrupt a poor family with more than one daughter.

One man told CNN that raising young girls was like "watering your neighbor's lawn."

To control female infanticide, officials in southern India have launched a program called the Cradle Baby Scheme to convince parents not to kill, but surrender unwanted baby girls to the state.

So far more than 420 baby girls have been handed over to state officials, who claim every baby surrendered is a life saved.

Parents like Kamala Palanisami agree.

Six months ago when she gave birth to her sixth child, a baby girl, Palanisami decided to give her to the state.

"I felt one daughter was enough, five children were enough. This child should get a better life -- so I gave her up,'' said Palanisami.

This woman who killed her baby also says it is poverty that drives parents to murder.

"If I could have clothed, fed and given the baby a decent life I wouldn't have done what I did.''

Officials are now trying to educate more women and find them higher paying jobs so they are better able to save their children and this region from so much suffering and shame.
 
I guess indians are just too stupid to know what condoms are used for :o
 
OMFG!!!!!! what shame!!!!!!!!

India should outlaw dowries even tho its been "tradition" for so many years -- i say it sure looks like its a BS system :-x

i remmy an article i read abt an Indian born girl living in the area who was GETTING READY to enter an arranged marriage with an Indian male who the family knew for their entire lifetimes go figure but anyway the girl refused to marry him AND called police and they filed criminal charges on the man's family along with her own for participating in the dowry -- KUDOS for the girl who turned down the marriage! shes become an icon for India born girls here and overseas -- ofc she felt bad but wanted to put that situation in the limelight and make a point that the Indian girls should not be forced into a marriage to a male she doesnt even love since the marriages oftentimes happen WITHIN HOURS of their meeting first time :shock:
 
It's sad that it's happening in the 3rd world countries...especially India. Looks like India is way behind in being in the modern age. Something needs to be done. :(
 
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