Vent Out! Freaking Deaf Ppl!

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what is fucking wrong with deaf ppl?

One of my deaf friend try to have friend with benefits with me.. i still insist to say NO for like millions time.. but he still touching me and try to make me want to have sex with him..

two of deaf ppl put little meat in my veggie food.. and all of my deaf friends didnt say anything about it to me.. (yes they saw it.. and do nothing about it!) what an untrusty friends to me! (yes i dont eat meat that the reason.. i hasnt eat meat for almost 6 years)

Most deaf ppl on this NTID campus try to make me to try weed, cigar, and else. for millions times that i told them "Hell no and will never try!" they are still asking me to try! get a life will ya all? I'm not under pressure in my peers..

4 deaf gurls put alchol (sp?) in my water bottle because they want to see how my reaction when i'm on drunk mode.. before that's happen.. I told them HELL NO for millions times that I dont want to drink wines, beers, or anything like that! they forced me to drink it by putting it in my water bottle? I drank it as slip and realized it isnt water.. I yelled at them and who freaking did that? they said nothing.. I'm like WHAT THE UNTRUSTY FRIENDS YA ALL!!!

and worst part that deaf ppl never grow up.. QUIT GOSSIP! i dont care it is small world for deaf ppl.. get a life! who cares to know about someone else's life? it isnt their businesses to know..

and list go on..

I realized that hearing ppl are better for me (yea i'm deaf but i hate deaf ppl.. ) my roommmate is hearing and seems to get along very well with me.. and i get along with several hard of hearing ppl.. they are freaking alot better than deaf ppl..
 
Hey, hey, take it easy, not all deaf people r idiots, like some of us here, now look u r gonna get some of us pissed, it's a disgrace and disrespect to the deaf community. U should know better not to judge the look or the way they act. U should be banned from this community for saying things like that.U have no reason to post this, just keep it to yourself....
 
Taurus said:
what is fucking wrong with deaf ppl?

One of my deaf friend try to have friend with benefits with me.. i still insist to say NO for like millions time.. but he still touching me and try to make me want to have sex with him..

two of deaf ppl put little meat in my veggie food.. and all of my deaf friends didnt say anything about it to me.. (yes they saw it.. and do nothing about it!) what an untrusty friends to me! (yes i dont eat meat that the reason.. i hasnt eat meat for almost 6 years)

Most deaf ppl on this NTID campus try to make me to try weed, cigar, and else. for millions times that i told them "Hell no and will never try!" they are still asking me to try! get a life will ya all? I'm not under pressure in my peers..

4 deaf gurls put alchol (sp?) in my water bottle because they want to see how my reaction when i'm on drunk mode.. before that's happen.. I told them HELL NO for millions times that I dont want to drink wines, beers, or anything like that! they forced me to drink it by putting it in my water bottle? I drank it as slip and realized it isnt water.. I yelled at them and who freaking did that? they said nothing.. I'm like WHAT THE UNTRUSTY FRIENDS YA ALL!!!

and worst part that deaf ppl never grow up.. QUIT GOSSIP! i dont care it is small world for deaf ppl.. get a life! who cares to know about someone else's life? it isnt their businesses to know..

and list go on..

I realized that hearing ppl are better for me (yea i'm deaf but i hate deaf ppl.. ) my roommmate is hearing and seems to get along very well with me.. and i get along with several hard of hearing ppl.. they are freaking alot better than deaf ppl..
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Taurus,

Whoa! Hold your horses! First of all, if you actually believed all that you said about deaf people, you wouldn't have posted here.

Secondly, if your friends are forcing or trying to force you with drugs, on campus, as a friend to them, you owe it to them to turn them over to campus security, all the while you tell them that you did "because you care" (even though you may not, but that's another subject).

I am a vegetarian myself and am trying to go totally vegan, which is difficult. Since your friends are not respectful toward you because of this, what's stopping you from "losing" those friends and join with other people of like mind? Have you checked out Meetup: World's largest community of local Meetups, clubs and groups! - Meetup.com I belong to one in my area. Name your interest, you can find something for yourself instead of ranting and raving, not knowing what to do.

As for gossiping, people are people and they always will, no matter if they're grown up or not. The gossip mills that run around here have questioned a few friendships I have here, as if we're having a fling. I let them talk, but do dispell it. Rumors about anything will be here, especially the one about the affair between me and shel90, which isn't true. ;) to shel.

As for a water bottle that you have, never leave any beverage, anywhere, unattended. If it's at a computer in a lab, use your discretion to drink it; when you go out with "friends" and use the restroom, when you come back, order another drink and don't touch the first one. Insist that the server takes it to the back, that way, you are protecting what you put into your body.

When you go to a picnic, bring your own beverage and don't allow anyone to tamper with it. The same with food. Anyone who would tamper with that is not a friend and, sorry to say, Taurus, you need to find a new group of friends and give these people the "left hand of fellowship."
 
pek1 said:
Taurus,

Whoa! Hold your horses! First of all, if you actually believed all that you said about deaf people, you wouldn't have posted here.

Secondly, if your friends are forcing or trying to force you with drugs, on campus, as a friend to them, you owe it to them to turn them over to campus security, all the while you tell them that you did "because you care" (even though you may not, but that's another subject).

I am a vegetarian myself and am trying to go totally vegan, which is difficult. Since your friends are not respectful toward you because of this, what's stopping you from "losing" those friends and join with other people of like mind? Have you checked out Meetup: World's largest community of local Meetups, clubs and groups! - Meetup.com I belong to one in my area. Name your interest, you can find something for yourself instead of ranting and raving, not knowing what to do.

As for gossiping, people are people and they always will, no matter if they're grown up or not. The gossip mills that run around here have questioned a few friendships I have here, as if we're having a fling. I let them talk, but do dispell it. Rumors about anything will be here, especially the one about the affair between me and shel90, which isn't true. ;) to shel.

As for a water bottle that you have, never leave any beverage, anywhere, unattended. If it's at a computer in a lab, use your discretion to drink it; when you go out with "friends" and use the restroom, when you come back, order another drink and don't touch the first one. Insist that the server takes it to the back, that way, you are protecting what you put into your body.

When you go to a picnic, bring your own beverage and don't allow anyone to tamper with it. The same with food. Anyone who would tamper with that is not a friend and, sorry to say, Taurus, you need to find a new group of friends and give these people the "left hand of fellowship."
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Yep, what he say :ty: Pek1
 
I tried to make new friends.. Still same behaviors.. I guess I'm in wrong place because they arent mature yet..
 
pek1 said:
Taurus,

Whoa! Hold your horses! First of all, if you actually believed all that you said about deaf people, you wouldn't have posted here.

Secondly, if your friends are forcing or trying to force you with drugs, on campus, as a friend to them, you owe it to them to turn them over to campus security, all the while you tell them that you did "because you care" (even though you may not, but that's another subject).

I am a vegetarian myself and am trying to go totally vegan, which is difficult. Since your friends are not respectful toward you because of this, what's stopping you from "losing" those friends and join with other people of like mind? Have you checked out Meetup: World's largest community of local Meetups, clubs and groups! - Meetup.com I belong to one in my area. Name your interest, you can find something for yourself instead of ranting and raving, not knowing what to do.

As for gossiping, people are people and they always will, no matter if they're grown up or not. The gossip mills that run around here have questioned a few friendships I have here, as if we're having a fling. I let them talk, but do dispell it. Rumors about anything will be here, especially the one about the affair between me and shel90, which isn't true. ;) to shel.

As for a water bottle that you have, never leave any beverage, anywhere, unattended. If it's at a computer in a lab, use your discretion to drink it; when you go out with "friends" and use the restroom, when you come back, order another drink and don't touch the first one. Insist that the server takes it to the back, that way, you are protecting what you put into your body.

When you go to a picnic, bring your own beverage and don't allow anyone to tamper with it. The same with food. Anyone who would tamper with that is not a friend and, sorry to say, Taurus, you need to find a new group of friends and give these people the "left hand of fellowship."
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:gpost: i fully agreed with pek1 on all things he said.


You just have to use your judgement to not leave water bottle alone at a party. always carry it with urself.

as for the group putting meats in your foods, obivously they are not your friends. dump them. find new group to hang out with who you can trust.
 
as for the group putting meats in your foods, obivously they are not your friends. dump them. find new group to hang out with who you can trust.
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Yeah sometimes things aren't what they seems. U can't just be friends with them in one day and be friends with them and you would call them your "friends" just because they are your "friend"? U wouldn't be "friends" with them when u say u hated them.U have to gain it's respect and learn to trust them first before making a mistake. Obviously u were there at the wrong place at the wrong time. Just find another group and find the people that cares and respect u. ;)
 
pek1 said:
Taurus,

Whoa! Hold your horses! First of all, if you actually believed all that you said about deaf people, you wouldn't have posted here.

Secondly, if your friends are forcing or trying to force you with drugs, on campus, as a friend to them, you owe it to them to turn them over to campus security, all the while you tell them that you did "because you care" (even though you may not, but that's another subject).

I am a vegetarian myself and am trying to go totally vegan, which is difficult. Since your friends are not respectful toward you because of this, what's stopping you from "losing" those friends and join with other people of like mind? Have you checked out Meetup: World's largest community of local Meetups, clubs and groups! - Meetup.com I belong to one in my area. Name your interest, you can find something for yourself instead of ranting and raving, not knowing what to do.

As for gossiping, people are people and they always will, no matter if they're grown up or not. The gossip mills that run around here have questioned a few friendships I have here, as if we're having a fling. I let them talk, but do dispell it. Rumors about anything will be here, especially the one about the affair between me and shel90, which isn't true. ;) to shel.

As for a water bottle that you have, never leave any beverage, anywhere, unattended. If it's at a computer in a lab, use your discretion to drink it; when you go out with "friends" and use the restroom, when you come back, order another drink and don't touch the first one. Insist that the server takes it to the back, that way, you are protecting what you put into your body.

When you go to a picnic, bring your own beverage and don't allow anyone to tamper with it. The same with food. Anyone who would tamper with that is not a friend and, sorry to say, Taurus, you need to find a new group of friends and give these people the "left hand of fellowship."
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yea i agree with u! good point!
 
Taurus said:
I tried to make new friends.. Still same behaviors.. I guess I'm in wrong place because they arent mature yet..
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I am sorry you are having so much trouble. But everyone here is right. You just can't judge everybody by the actions of the ignorant, and sad to say, the ignorant will always be among us. Still, it really hurts when ignorant people hurt you. Believe me, that happens just as much in the hearing world and schools.

Don't you hate it when hearies treat all Deaf people like they are disabled or mentally slow? It is the same thing as you thinking that all Deaf people are terrible or out to get you.

One of the things you are dealing with is immaturity. It sounds like those students have not yet found the sanity that you seem to already posses. Maybe you would be happier at a religious school where the standards of behavior are suppose to be more integral. (Not that they are, necessarily)

There has to be a solution out there somewhere for you, but hatred for the Deaf community is not it. I wish you luck in the future, and I pray your wounded heart won't get hardened. Jeanie... still chasing the dream for a better tomorrow for ALL.
 
Taurus said:
I tried to make new friends.. Still same behaviors.. I guess I'm in wrong place because they arent mature yet..
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Okay, now is the time for drastic measures. What are you doing for the next school year? Time to transfer and not tell anyone about it.
 
cant transfer to another college anyway.. this college i'm in is my only hope.. Arent interest in Gally..
 
I am deaf and I would never do any of those things to my friends.

It has nothing to do with deafness. U are just with the wrong people.

Look at the hearing cheerleader girls beating that one girl up on video. Does that mean all hearing teenaged girls are going to behave that way? Nope.

To come in here and post saying that you hate deaf people simply because a few of them behave immaturely is asking for more problems.
 
shel90 said:
I am deaf and I would never do any of those things to my friends.

It has nothing to do with deafness. U are just with the wrong people.

To come in here and post saying that you hate deaf people simply because a few of them behave immaturely is asking for more problems.
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:gpost: Yep what she say
 
shel90 said:
To come in here and post saying that you hate deaf people simply because a few of them behave immaturely is asking for more problems.
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Well said, Shel.

It has nothing to do with being deaf. If you, Taurus, found new friends as you said you did and their behavior is the same, then you are looking in the wrong place. Most people make friends with people they have things in common with, so perhaps you need to change some of your own behavior. This is not a personal attack on you, I'm just saying it how I see it ....
 
Hang in there.

If one group is doing it, then avoid that group.

If you say they are your friends, but don't like what they're doing to you all the time... then they aren't really your friends.

I have a friend who likes to drink, but he respects my drinking decisions. If I say that I've had enough to drink, he won't force me to drink more.

There will always be immature people like that in school... hearing and deaf people. Although it may seem that it occurs more common with deaf people, it doesn't mean that you should focus mainly on hearing people only.

Where do these things usually happen?
 
:lol: at Pek1


Anyways, about the gossip..my husband is hearing and he says that his hearing coworkers gossip all day about other coworkers.

Gossip is everywhere...u probably arent aware that hearing people gossip cuz you cant hear them do it but trust me, they do.

No, not all hearing people gossip and neither to all deaf people.
 
Gotta agree with those guys too, VampPyroX and Alleycat good posting. Taurus I think u need to apologize to all of us and here in Alldeaf we are all friendly community and I assure u will find wonderful friends in here, we can be your friends but u need to gain our friendship and respect us in a good kind of way.
 
Taurus, watch your word.

You just got in with wrong person. :roll:
 
shel90 said:
I am deaf and I would never do any of those things to my friends.

It has nothing to do with deafness. U are just with the wrong people.

Look at the hearing cheerleader girls beating that one girl up on video. Does that mean all hearing teenaged girls are going to behave that way? Nope.

To come in here and post saying that you hate deaf people simply because a few of them behave immaturely is asking for more problems.
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Exactly. Things like this happen in the hearing world as well. It isn't about hearing status...its about character. Some have it, some don't.
 
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