Awww I know how you feel Rebelgirl, same thing goes on with my family as well, my ex boyfriend's family are awesome and great people, when I went to the wedding with him, his mom sign every thing people were saying at the tables, even what music was played, and his parents are hearing and signs so well too. I was impressed, that his mom involves us in everything, what they were laughing about, and who says what, and what's going on, what's the plans, every little details, she would just sign it out to us made us felt so conformable, I just love her!