I disagree with some of your comments
"One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself"
I don't demand them to respect me in order for me to respect them.
sounds like you're close-minded and you will only listen to what you want to listen.
that's rather rude and selfish. I don't like that kind of attitude.
I always get along with hearing people. Hearies shouldn't feel lucky simply because we're deaf and rare. Instead - people should feel lucky to have a good friend who they can count on.
you sound very selective and judgmental 