the key word here is "tend"....
We are talking about labels for different communities, correct? If one doesn't want to connect with others due to labels, then they are probably most likely not interested in being with others hence being anti-social.
Being in a Catholic group and getting together to kill another group is not anti-social because the people in the Catholic group are socializing with each other, right?
U implied that if one wants to belong in a group or a community with labels, that is considered wanting to belong in a cult. I don't know how people wanting to be identified with the Deaf community as being in a cult.
