The girl and the net

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soulchill

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Well, tonight is the first work volley ball night. So also the first time I spend more than a few minutes with the pretty, funny, nice girl I seem to have a crush on. I don't feel ready for a relationship, and can't put a finger on why she stands out. Don't see her often, but we pass with a smile and stop for a few words. I'm not the most observant person, but notice the small things - change hairstyle, new clothes, different makeup. It's nice to have a crush; possibilities and hope, pleasant distraction. But don't know if I'm ready to be open. Really just hoping she's as fun and interesting for more than the 5-10 minutes at a time I see her now. Maybe a good friend or something more. I don't know.:hmm:
 
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
 
Dude, don't ask until you are ready to commit. However, don't take too long to ask because she will put you in the friends zone(A wicked and evil place).
 
been married my lenghth with an x husband aswel the friend zone not bad place
 
soulchill said:
Well, tonight is the first work volley ball night. So also the first time I spend more than a few minutes with the pretty, funny, nice girl I seem to have a crush on. I don't feel ready for a relationship, and can't put a finger on why she stands out. Don't see her often, but we pass with a smile and stop for a few words. I'm not the most observant person, but notice the small things - change hairstyle, new clothes, different makeup. It's nice to have a crush; possibilities and hope, pleasant distraction. But don't know if I'm ready to be open. Really just hoping she's as fun and interesting for more than the 5-10 minutes at a time I see her now. Maybe a good friend or something more. I don't know.:hmm:
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Don't want a relationship yet? Why don't you tell her that she's beautiful and that you like her and ask her if she wants to have sex with you? Maybe she will say yes. :lol:
 
That will only work on Hookers or Slores, Crazypaul. I am pretty sure that the girl he is talking about is not one. ;P Funny Comment Nonetheless.
 
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Don't want a relationship yet? Why don't you tell her that she's beautiful and that you like her and ask her if she wants to have sex with you? Maybe she will say yes. :lol:
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Well that's a great way to get a black eye and kicked in the ...



Seriously - eww
 
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Seriously - eww
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Depending on how she looks at him. If she's constantly looking at his bulge, obviously she wants it, too. :lol:
 
Only one person on my team didn't show... Kinda funny. Had a quick storm after work and most showed up late. Had a real hard time understanding my team. Asked someone to speak up, and they were speaking Spanish. Lots of fun, though.
 
soulchill said:
Well, tonight is the first work volley ball night. So also the first time I spend more than a few minutes with the pretty, funny, nice girl I seem to have a crush on. I don't feel ready for a relationship, and can't put a finger on why she stands out. Don't see her often, but we pass with a smile and stop for a few words. I'm not the most observant person, but notice the small things - change hairstyle, new clothes, different makeup. It's nice to have a crush; possibilities and hope, pleasant distraction. But don't know if I'm ready to be open. Really just hoping she's as fun and interesting for more than the 5-10 minutes at a time I see her now. Maybe a good friend or something more. I don't know.:hmm:
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Silly you. Guys makre it more difficult in their heads than the task really is. First off, you don't know her, even by the changes you observed. TALK to her, and if she is interested in the conversation, ask her out and get to know her better. Otherwise, it's not meant to be, it is still possible to get her attention, you got to work at it (not be annoying though). There will always be acceptance or heartbreak, that's just how it is when looking for "the one".
 
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Silly you. Guys makre it more difficult in their heads than the task really is. First off, you don't know her, even by the changes you observed. TALK to her, and if she is interested in the conversation, ask her out l get to know her better. Otherwise, it's not meant to be, it is still possible to get her attention, you got to work at it (not be annoying though). There will always be acceptance or heartbreak, that's just how it is when looking for "the one".
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Yeah, thanks for the perspective. Really not a problem if it doesn't work out. Not saying it doesn't matter or that I'm not interested. Just that I wouldn't be any worse off. Not sure where I'm at, OD'd on drama and still in recovery. My friends here think I'm stupid to put up with what I have. And in some ways I suppose I have been. But those who know me better know that I'm not the cold person I seem. When the train wrecks, it's a little late to get off.

I just know that if I'm not ready to be open with her, it's not the right thing to do. And that I think about it so much tells me that I'm not ready. Despite wanting to.
 
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