Again, who are YOU to determine how ALL of the deaf should live or how ALL of the deaf children should be raised?
How would you feel if someone that doesn't use the wheelchair determines how ALL those that does use the wheelchair should live or how ALL children that does use the wheelchair be raised?
The fact that you seem to tiptoe around the issue and won't answer the above questions does put it in perspective that you probably wouldn't like it if was the other way around...
