That is something I am against. I believe in letting deaf people make the decisions for themselves and yes, I have grown up feeling like my deafness was a nuisiance to hearing people. It was always apparent when they would roll their eyes whenever I ask them what was being said around me only to say "Never mind", or "I will tell you later" instead of being gracious enough to do some accodomating on their part to keep me included.
That's one of the reasons why I am so happy to have found the Deaf community. There, I dont feel that way at all. No child should ever feel that way.
