Unless they were born hearing, lost it after barely beginning to speak, raised with ASL as their first language, and attended a bi-bi school, implanted at at around age 5 bilaterally, developed auditory skills which lead to learning spoken language but also continued to be a part of the Deaf community....then they actually can't speak to what she experiences. If someone has lived that life, I would love to hear their advice and life experiences. If you have a completely different life experience, how is your experience more relevant than any stranger off the street?