Yes, we have agreement.
The question is what if we drill a deal kid with oral skills? What if we force deaf kids to perform exclusively in oral language? Does the kid operate at a disadvantage? Will the kid be burned out and lose the love learning? Does the kid feel like he's being heard? It's a real possibility that the kid will burn out or not feel heard. It's a matter of balance.
What will happen at adolescence? Teenagers control communication entirely! Parents must communicate the teen's way, whatever that is. Control freaks need not apply to work with teens.
