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Today make that phone call (whether it be by telephone, text messaging, cell phone, videophone, AIM, whatever) and tell your friends how much they mean to you. Don't put it off any longer.

I've been meaning to call a friend to see how she's been doing. But I was busy with my recent move to another state, new job, new transitions, etc.

And now it is too late.

She passed away yesterday.

Today. Call them. Tell them how much they mean to you. If you had strifes with them, resolve it now. Life's too precious.
 
deafbajagal said:
Today make that phone call (whether it be by telephone, text messaging, cell phone, videophone, AIM, whatever) and tell your friends how much they mean to you. Don't put it off any longer.

I've been meaning to call a friend to see how she's been doing. But I was busy with my recent move to another state, new job, new transitions, etc.

And now it is too late.

She passed away yesterday.

Today. Call them. Tell them how much they mean to you. If you had strifes with them, resolve it now. Life's too precious.
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I am sorry to hear :( :hug: I know what you mean , never know what tomorrow will bring always tell family and friends ILY life is soo short.
 
I'm sorry for your loss. :hug:

I think you may be right; because it happened to me. I lost a good friend and I was so sad when she died only one month after she had a newborn girl (now she's more than one year old)... I barely talked to her, now, it's too late for me. :(
 
I am sorry to hear this loss - :hug:



KarissaMann05 said:
I'm sorry for your loss. :hug:

I think you may be right; because it happened to me. I lost a good friend and I was so sad when she died only one month after she had a newborn girl (now she's more than one year old)... I barely talked to her, now, it's too late for me. :(
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Karissa - what I have read, your friend passed away after the girl was born, but if you still see the little girl, you should tell her that how good her mother was and was being a good friend and such. Makes her happy. Just a suggestion :) (don't take it in the wrong way though)
 
deafbajagal said:
Today make that phone call (whether it be by telephone, text messaging, cell phone, videophone, AIM, whatever) and tell your friends how much they mean to you. Don't put it off any longer.

I've been meaning to call a friend to see how she's been doing. But I was busy with my recent move to another state, new job, new transitions, etc.

And now it is too late.

She passed away yesterday.

Today. Call them. Tell them how much they mean to you. If you had strifes with them, resolve it now. Life's too precious.
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I'm so sorry!

I always tell my friends that I love them for this very reason. You never know when something may happen and you might never see that person again. I also experienced the loss of a very special person and it just made me all the more aware of what can happen.

Now, I never let a day go by without telling someone I love them.

Deafbajagirl,

I really am sorry. If you need a friend, PM me anytime. :)
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, and you're right. I do tell my real true friends how much they meant to me quite often. ;)
 
Aw I am sorry about your friend. I am not sure if my friend sxyporkie is alive or died. I am so sad about her.
 
lilylover72 said:
Aw I am sorry about your friend. I am not sure if my friend sxyporkie is alive or died. I am so sad about her.
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Do you know anyone who is the relatives with her, such as children that you can contact?
 
Oh my gosh! I am so sorry about this! Yea, it is so easy to get so busy with our own lives and forget about setting aside time to contact our friends or family from far away. :hug:
 
deafbajagal said:
Today make that phone call (whether it be by telephone, text messaging, cell phone, videophone, AIM, whatever) and tell your friends how much they mean to you. Don't put it off any longer.

I've been meaning to call a friend to see how she's been doing. But I was busy with my recent move to another state, new job, new transitions, etc.

And now it is too late.

She passed away yesterday.

Today. Call them. Tell them how much they mean to you. If you had strifes with them, resolve it now. Life's too precious.
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Sorry to hear about that.

But I will go on record and say I like you deafbajagal! :)
 
I'm so sorry you lost your friend :cry: I lost my best friend also on the 5th January this year during a 3 day power outage, and I didn't know she was gone until the electricity came back on and I got online. She was on the other side of the country. My last words to her were, "Cya later!" You never know when it will happen.
 
Hey, I know it’s hard not be fraught with regret or be in anger with yourself for not making an effort (im not saying you were, but a deep sense of regret more like it), it’s good that you learnt something from it, and try actually practice it in future. It is really sad for you to miss out like that; even hurting and it can be downright heavy like making you feel like a big hole because life and death is something we have no control over, like fate.
I have a friend who's really old, nearly 90 but was very healthy and fit like 60 years old, only recently he is stricken with cancer with probably weeks or days to live. I am very glad to have helped him to repair his old classic car, an Austin 1300. It was giving back debts of kindness for all the favour and encouragement to do well at motocross when I was younger.
I am sure he knew that I was easily lead, but it just would be nice to be truly upfront and say Hi and say I really cherished our friendship and appreciated his sharing of the love of motocross sports and with that it did showed me ways of thinking about trying hard and negotiating difficult (riding) situations with confidence, A lot of it was all about supreme confidence, and it is true. I plan to, and I hope I dont miss out too. Sometimes we do know, and with that sometimes it's hard to say 'i could have', when you were truly busy, life has a sick sense of humour and makes us think.
 
deafbajagal said:
Today make that phone call (whether it be by telephone, text messaging, cell phone, videophone, AIM, whatever) and tell your friends how much they mean to you. Don't put it off any longer.

I've been meaning to call a friend to see how she's been doing. But I was busy with my recent move to another state, new job, new transitions, etc.

And now it is too late.

She passed away yesterday.

Today. Call them. Tell them how much they mean to you. If you had strifes with them, resolve it now. Life's too precious.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
 
I am sorry for your loss. I agree with your advice we should always tell our loved ones how much they mean to us.
 
Yeow, I'm sorry to hear about your loss but I totally am with u on that, deafbajagal.

Anything can happen at a moment's notice and you wouldn't know about it until you realize otherwise, so yeah, to a point, you just got to say what is on your mind and tell your friends/family and loved ones that they mean so much.

Life can be cruel, It's true but u know, it also makes us think twice about other things too.
 
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