Teen Summer Camping without parents

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Can you share your experience for offer your teenagers to go camping with supersivors and other teenagers?

Danny will go to Rome, Italy with his mates from 3 different villages including my area for 2 weeks on 25th August. Of course Supersivors are included. It will be his first time... :Ohno:

Danny learn about this thru our neighbor. Our neighbor's son went to summer camp in different countries for 3 years since he was 13 years old. He loves it and influence my son then my son influence his mates... More teenagers in my villages want to go... :eek3: Our neighbor's son had been went camp in Spain and Greece... will go to Rome this summer as well...

I got information from my neighbor and check with internet and got an information and DVD by post... We saw DVD and find really good and accept to let Danny go...

I was sort of "shock" when Danny said to me for a first time at few months ago for not want to go family summer vacation with us anymore and want something different. He said that he enjoy himself to travel with us for many years but he want something different... I accept and understand him. He found teen summer camp and want to join there to enjoy with his mates for change.

This teen summer camp is for between 13 and 18 years old.

We accept to let him go and let him grow into an independent, confident and good self-esteem person.

Have you experience to let your teenagers go like this... I know it's bit scary ... but I has to let him go...because I trust his maturity.
 
i cant think myself this thread!

if i have my own kids one days i can let GO and have supervisor MUST! or i would go with them all the times under 18 i know that not fair!

my cousin who now 19 years old can let go and she very nervous to be alone going to european trips very first times include everythings on their trips but my aunt going with her that good for my aunt.

mostly teenages who under 18 cant do that going on european trips without parent's permission that totally influences! if going on european trips learn about royals,history,etc.

i never been gone european trips under 18 years old dues of my school's permission till im graduation from Kansas School for the Deaf and im finally going to London,England in Nov.2002 with my mom and im interest include history of palaces,history,and Princess Diana's famous dress at Kensington Palaces since 1981-1997 and before tours anywhere in London,England im met Prince Charles at Prince's trust he very nice man.my mom cant think about me to met Prince Charles! so i would love going that London,England again because my favorite vacation spot i already told my mom about that! and my mom got some nice china plates from London,england and very kept cups and plates both they dont break it!

if kids wanted going european trips they ask parents first and earn money from rich parents like my aunt had it many million rich parents can earn money for trips to european they dont spend it im tell you truth!
 
Nobody post here except Sara1981 so I visit google and found the link and agree with those link...


Teens and Family Vacation

Should They Stay or Should They Go?

"Do I have to go? Stevie's mom said that I could stay with them while you're at the Cape." Into most parents' lives, there usually comes some version of this response to the traditional family summer vacation. Although teens usually send out some preliminary signals of not wanting to accompany the family on its vacation, we are usually caught off guard when our child actually utters the words "I don't want to go." We are alternately confused, angered, saddened, and hurt. We don't cope well. We take it personally.

Dad: "But how could you not want to go to the cottage this summer? We've been going there every summer as a family since you were two years old. You love it there. The swimming. The fishing. Camping out. Making s'mores."

Mike: "I was thinking about getting a part-time summer job this year and starting up a band."

Mom: "But you just can't stay home alone for two weeks while we're gone."

Mike: "I sort of already cleared that with Stevie's mom that it's okay to stay with them for the two weeks you're gone. She says it's fine with her if it's okay with you."

Mom: "How come you suddenly don't want to go to the cottage anymore? Don't you want to spend time with me and your Dad and your brother? You always looked forward to it so much. Is there something going on that we don't know about?"

Mike: "Yeah, I've always loved going down to the summer cottage but these past couple of years it's become kind of boring for me. No kids I know go down there anymore. And it's the same old, same old -- mini-golf, flea markets, country fairs, antiquing -- It just doesn't do it for me anymore. It's nothing against you guys or Sam. It's just that I'm 15 and Sam's 8. I'd like to make some of my own spending money this summer, hang around with my friends, since most all of them are going to be around, and try to get a band started. It's something we've been talking about doing all school year. And I can't do that if I go with you for those two weeks."

Dad: "I don't really know what to say. I'm in shock. How can we have our summer vacation without you? And what will Sam do without you? He'll be miserable without his big brother."

Mike: "Dad, you and Mom will have a great time like you always do. Yeah, it'll be different without me this time but you'll be fine and I'll be fine. And Sam will play with the same kids that he's been playing with for the past five years who always come down with their families. You know that. Plus he'll have you all to himself."

Mom: "Well, you'll have to give us a day or two to think this over and to talk with Stevie's mother to make sure this is really okay with her. You're sure this is what you want to do?"

Mike: "Positively sure. And thanks for not getting all crazy angry and making me feel as terrible as I thought you would."

Ready for New Experiences

I hope Mike's parents do let him stay with Stevie's mom. He's 15 and he's ready for some new experiences, challenges, and responsibilities. He hasn't outgrown being a member of his family. He's simply outgrown the family's annual summer cottage vacation and he wants to spend the summer doing some growing up on his own, with his friends. He's becoming independent. He's not rejecting them or loving them any less. Poor parenting didn't cause his decision. In fact it seems they've done a wonderful job with Mike and they responded to his stay-at-home request in fine fashion. They've done nothing wrong. It was a healthy request from a 15-year-old who's growing up and trying to find an identity apart from his family.

I've known parents of teenagers who have forced them against their will to go on family summer vacations. Forced them when their teens had their own ideas of how they would like to spend their summer, or at least the time scheduled for the summer vacation. What these parents received in return were angry, spiteful teens with earphones constantly attached to their heads as a response. Painful experiences. Bad vacations.

We must listen to what our teenager needs from us to let him grow into an independent, confident, self-reliant person. And sometimes that means shedding some tears, saying goodbye to the traditional family summer vacation as you knew it, making one less s'more at the campfire and calling him frequently at Stevie's to see how the band's coming along.

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The teenagers will rebel against their parents for their overprotective. Did you know what "teen-terrible" is?

Teenagers need their parent's understanding and support.


I saw those description and know how my son feel. He needs alone and something different than go with parents all the time...

I asked my son what if we fly to somewhere then? He said that he would come if we are out of Europe... His dream wish is Eypt and American Islands.

My son raise to know as travelling because we travel everywhere a lot... It's time for him to join with his mates alone but it's good that there're supervisors including and good programs for sports, culture, etc.


 
mostly teenages who under 18 cant do that going on european trips without parent's permission that totally influences! if going on european trips learn about royals,history,etc.

Yes, it's parent's finance decision. The teenagers cannot go anywhere without their parental's approval.

if kids wanted going european trips they ask parents first and earn money from rich parents like my aunt had it many million rich parents can earn money for trips to european they dont spend it im tell you truth!

It has nothing do with "rich" parents but fulfill their children's wish as what they can and watch their children's maturity before agree to let them go alone with their mates and supervisors.

I live in Europe and can drive to other Europe countries... Italy is not far from Germany.

Why can't Americans teens go camp vacation in other states in America? Do they have teens summer camping in America?


 
Um, if my son is in his age, I won't allow him to go on trips stuffs like that...

BUt on his senior trip (graduating from high school) they always get together to go to the beach for a week which it called Senior Week at the beach... THey party and everything... Quite experiences..
 
Lots of Christian kids, not just teens, go to Christian camps every summer. My daughter went to the Wilds camp when she was about 12 years old. The kids from our church go to the Wilds ( The Wilds Christian Association, Inc. - Home Page ), Bill Rice Ranch ( Bill Rice Ranch - Home ), and the Anchorage. Off course, adults from our church also go, and the camps have adult counselors and staff. Usually, each family pays for their own kids but if they can't afford it the adult Sunday School classes sponsor kids to go.

Our teen group also goes on annual missions trips to places like Nova Scotia, Mexico, Utah, and Poland. The youth pastor and his wife, and other adults, go with them. When my daughter was in high school she went on a missions trip out West. Sometimes their travel includes camping and "roughing it." The kids raise their own financial support for the missions trips, so everyone can afford to go.
 
Lots of Christian kids, not just teens, go to Christian camps every summer. My daughter went to the Wilds camp when she was about 12 years old. The kids from our church go to the Wilds ( The Wilds Christian Association, Inc. - Home Page ), Bill Rice Ranch ( Bill Rice Ranch - Home ), and the Anchorage. Off course, adults from our church also go, and the camps have adult counselors and staff. Usually, each family pays for their own kids but if they can't afford it the adult Sunday School classes sponsor kids to go.

Our teen group also goes on annual missions trips to places like Nova Scotia, Mexico, Utah, and Poland. The youth pastor and his wife, and other adults, go with them. When my daughter was in high school she went on a missions trip out West. Sometimes their travel includes camping and "roughing it." The kids raise their own financial support for the missions trips, so everyone can afford to go.

This link, you provide is similar description what my son will go. I showed your link to my son. He said he like what he saw from your link... I tried to find English website for you to read but I can´t find... All what I have is German website... I hope you can see the pictures... This is for between 12 years old and 18 years old Youth.

volksfreund.de

Simple click English then you will see the picture where my son will go with his mates from 3 different villages of my area.

He will travel with adult (supervisors from Youth Welfare), his mates and youth people by luxury bus with TV, bed, WC, video usw. and will stop at Switerzland for break then stop to different towns down to Rome, Italy. He will sleep at 4 star camping village... 12 persons in one camp village... Full pension - all buffets with soft drinks, sports, swimming, travel around Italy - venice, Venona, Rome, Neapal, Pisa, Petersdom, visit Pope, Pompeji, ..... Beach, basket ball, scoocer,... model show, outing, party, etc. with supersivors (Youth Welfares) all including for 2 weeks cost €550.00 ($722.00)

Baia Domizia, Camping villaggio vacanze

It will be my son´s first time to travel alone with his mates, supersivors (adult youth welfare people) and youth people. My neighbor´s son went to Spain for 2 weeks at 2 years ago and Greece for 3 weeks last year. He love it and said that he met new people and learn interesting cultures. He will go with my son as well. It´s good that my son go with group, I know from 3 different villages and neighbor son.

I beleive it´s good useful and experiences for young children to teenagers to collect...
 
I got a letter from Youth Welfare Department today. They know from records that we are deaf. (They support us with cost for my sons speech development when they were babies). They are pleased that we let Danny go with them to learn cultures and involve with people same as himself. They offer 30% discount from the amount price... :eek3: only if we reserve the book for Danny on 25th August in end of February. It will cost us $500 instead of $722 for 2 weeks including full pension, travel, bus, camping, etc. It´s good...

I know that I will go America this July... and then plus Danny´s travel expenses.... and plus Alan´s school camping, too... My car BMW is dead last week... :tears: We save up like mad.... I suggest Travel Agency where we will book for Danny last Friday, to agree to pay monthly rate until end of July. They agreed... I´m releived when they understand and accept monthly rate.

It means that there will be no vacation for us this summer but we like to see my boys enjoy their vacation. We are hunting for another car but it must be small and enviroment including save gasoline.
 
In high schools,in my area, most students sign up for trips like Spain or Swizterland, etc. But it's not summer camp. It's a learning trip. Last year, my nephew went to Spain for a week. My daughter went to Washington, DC in 8th grade field trip. They stayed there for 3 days. I'm sure your son will be fine with supervisors. It's normal for any parents to get worry about their kids go away for a few days or weeks.


PS: It cost my nephew's father $3000.00 per person for the trip to Spain. That's include airfare, food and stay at the hotel.
 
Liebling,

I would love to gather those information.. I really want my two teenagers are deserved experience travel along w/Teenagers and supervisor..

Im very interest like this one.. Can I have information brochure and etc.. pm me!

You're not alone broke down your car.. So am I recently upset w/my suv went DEAD INSTANT and warned the check engine and "Hold" flickering for no reason. We contacted the dealership company belong as same suv brand.
We'll bring our suv along to Dealer company real soon but don't know when. We were re-looked into our budget went into deep hole tight... as far our try best effort saving up money for our vacation/attend wedding on July and other things saving for our two teenagers need deserved have their vacation experience exploring!
 
I go on mission trips and youth gatherings every summer along with usually going to a week of summer camp to. It's no big deal to my parents sure they miss me but they are realitvly comfortable that i can take care of my self.
 
In high schools,in my area, most students sign up for trips like Spain or Swizterland, etc. But it's not summer camp. It's a learning trip. Last year, my nephew went to Spain for a week. My daughter went to Washington, DC in 8th grade field trip. They stayed there for 3 days. I'm sure your son will be fine with supervisors. It's normal for any parents to get worry about their kids go away for a few days or weeks.


PS: It cost my nephew's father $3000.00 per person for the trip to Spain. That's include airfare, food and stay at the hotel.

Yes, it´s something do with "learning trips" during summer camp. My sons school holiday will start from 30th July to 13th September... We pick 25th August to 9th September.

I have seen many 9 Graders in school sign for trips to Europe and overseas. Depend on parental´s finance. If the parents can´t acheive with costs then they can apply at government for subsidy to support students with their trips. Its finance decision, either they can have subsidy or not.

Yes it´s bit scare to let Danny go alone with their mates but it´s good to know that they have supersivors around. Its good for them to learn something...
 
Liebling,

I would love to gather those information.. I really want my two teenagers are deserved experience travel along w/Teenagers and supervisor..

Im very interest like this one.. Can I have information brochure and etc.. pm me!

You're not alone broke down your car.. So am I recently upset w/my suv went DEAD INSTANT and warned the check engine and "Hold" flickering for no reason. We contacted the dealership company belong as same suv brand.
We'll bring our suv along to Dealer company real soon but don't know when. We were re-looked into our budget went into deep hole tight... as far our try best effort saving up money for our vacation/attend wedding on July and other things saving for our two teenagers need deserved have their vacation experience exploring!

Have you see links, I provided in my previous post? I know it´s German website... I will try to provide English website for you to see any interesting brochures for teenagers.

Yes I´m the same boat as you as well...
 
Have you see links, I provided in my previous post? I know it´s German website... I will try to provide English website for you to see any interesting brochures for teenagers.

Yes I´m the same boat as you as well...

Ok.. When you found the English website convert from Germany.

Broke down last Saturday and making me upset instant and unpleasant w/this! I had been quite bad mood for rest all the weekend... and today getting there okay okay but just feel inside something crawl up and become sour easily upset more due issue $ Ain't fun! :rifle:
 
GalaxyAngel, I search the good links for you... I hope it helps.

Summer Camp - It's More Than a Vacation

It's a place where a child learns to appreciate the outdoors and explore talents, interests and values. It's a place where skills are developed, such as teamwork, self-reliance and cooperation. It's a chance to learn, contribute and make friendships.

To help make camp a fun and memorable experience for your child, you'll want to choose a program that fits your child's age and likes. You might want to consider whether your child is developmentally ready for camp. If so, what kind of camp is the best match? What do you need to consider when looking at camps? And how can you help your child get ready?

Sending a child to overnight or day camp, especially for the first time, can be stressful for parents. By reviewing the following information, you can help prepare your child for this fun event and gain some peace of mind for yourself.

Ready or Not?

You want your child going to overnight camp to be safe, involved and happy while away. How does a parent tell if a child is ready? One of the most important considerations is whether your child has a desire to attend summer camp.

If so, the American Camping Association (ACA) suggests ages 7 - 8 as a guideline for overnight camp. However, children mature at different rates. Some 7-year-olds may adjust fine, while some 8-year-olds might panic at the sight of Mom and Dad driving away.

Take into account how your child reacts during a sleep-over at a friend's house. Is your child playing contentedly when it's time to go home, or calling you at the crack of dawn? Does your child generally become anxious when you're separated, or is your youngster independent by nature? Before sending your child to camp, you might try a weekend visit to the home of a relative or friend who has children of comparable ages.

Regardless of age, a child should be able to perform some basic tasks before attending any camp. Without these skills, a child will have to rely on counselors as baby sitters instead of the friends, instructors and role models they should be. Make sure your child can:

Tie shoelaces
Cut food
Shower
Dress
Make a bed
Fold clothes
Write a note or letter
How to Choose a Camp

Most summer camps provide a range of activities - such as swimming, hiking, archery and crafts. But some camps specialize in a particular hobby, sport or activity. Baseball, language studies, computers, bicycling, fencing and aviation are some of the topics covered extensively in specialized summer camps. Identify camps that best fit your child's needs, interests and temperament.

Talk to friends who have children and talk to the parents of your children's friends. They may have already gone through the process of choosing a camp and can share information with you. You might discover several families have children looking into the same or similar camps and you can share your thoughts and information.

Some things to consider when choosing a camp:

Type of camp: Same-sex or coed? Overnight or day camp? You might consider a specialty camp that offers a focused curriculum, such as basketball, or a special-needs camp designed for specific physical or medical disability.

Session lengths: A child may attend camp for a week or two - or an entire summer.

Cost: Fees generally range from $15 to $55 per day for those operated by nonprofit organizations, youth groups and public agencies. Fees at independent, privately run camps can range from $35 to $120 per day. Transportation to camp is generally not included, except at day camps, though some overnight camps do provide free transportation to and from the nearest metropolitan area. A camp's tuition fee may not include all the extras. Many camps charge additional fees for horseback riding, canteen (camp store) purchases, insurance, special trips and other items.

Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, "Y's" and other nonprofit agencies offer "camperships" while some religious, municipal and government agencies offer financial aid. Parents should check with local agencies and/or specific camps to find out about scholarship availability and eligibility.

Location: If you're sending your child to camp for the first time, a camp that is relatively close to your home might provide some reassurance. Not only is the area familiar, but in case of an emergency, you could be there quickly.

Program emphasis and philosophy: Does the camp provide structured activities, in which everyone is required to participate, or elective programs, in which students pick activities that interest them, or a combination?

Enrollment: Some camps close their enrollment for summer sessions as early as January or February. Start early in deciding on summer camp so you don't choose one then discover it is no longer accepting reservations. It's never too early to start thinking about camp for next summer. Some camps offer early registration fees at reduced rates.

Accreditation: Camps accredited by the ACA comply with nationally recognized health, safety and program-quality standards, including:

Emergency transportation
First aid facilities and training
Aquatic programs supervised by staff members certified in lifeguard training
Health histories, including immunizations, for all campers and staff
Emergency exits from second-floor sleeping quarters
Important Questions to Ask the Camp Director

When you've narrowed your search to two or three camps, the ACA recommends scheduling an appointment or telephone interview with the director: This meeting helps you get answers to questions or concerns that have not been answered in the brochures and videos sent out by the camps.

Some important questions to ask directors:

What is your educational and career background? Look for a bachelor's degree and prior camp administrative experience.
What do you look for when hiring counselors?
Are most of the camp counselors at least 18 years old? The ACA recommends 80 percent or more of the counseling/program staff be a least 18.
How many counselors from previous years have returned? Most camps have 40-60 percent returning staff.
What is the ratio of counselors to campers? This will vary with age and type of camp; the medium range is one staff member for every seven to eight campers.
What is the camp's philosophy? Decide whether it complements your won parenting philosophy. Is it competitive or cooperative?
What are the safety and medical accommodations at the camp? If your child has special needs, is the camp equipped to handle them?
How does the camp handle homesickness? Does the camp have recommendations for parents to help with the situation?
Does your child have access to a telephone?
How are behavioral and disciplinary problems handled? You might look for positive reinforcement, assertive role-modeling and a sense of fair play.
Is it possible to visit the camp before enrolling your child?
Can the director provide names of other families to contact for their impressions of the camp?
Does the camp offer scholarships for those who can't afford the tuition?
Is the camp accredited by the ACA? If not, why did the camp not seek accreditation?
What type of food is served and how often? Ask to see the meal plan.
Preparing Your Child for Camp

Preparation for camp starts in the planning stage. If your child is part of the decision-making process --from where to go to camp to what to pack - the youngster will likely feel better about attending. Still, many children have some anxiety about leaving home.

Here are some suggestions to minimize anxiety and make camp fun.

Talk about the possibility of homesickness. Explain to your child that it's a natural emotion felt by people of all ages when left in unfamiliar surroundings.
Acknowledge your child's feelings and respond with love and reassurance.
Be realistic. Like the rest of life, many find that a camp has high and low points. Encourage a realistic view. Talk to your child about the possible ups and downs
Try to visit the camp ahead of time so your child can become familiar with the facilities and surroundings.
Send your child a letter before camp begins so a message from home is waiting upon arrival. Pack pre-addressed, pre-stamped postcards and envelopes so it will be easy for your child to write to you.
Should your child call you from camp and want to come home, encourage trying to work things out. You might say, "If you still feel this way in two days, we'll discuss what we can do." But trust your instincts. If your child is not enjoying anything, not adjusting to camp life and having a miserable time, you might allow the child to return home.
Packing Tips for Camp

You should receive information on policies and procedures before your child is ready to go. The following checklist would help you decide what you do or don't need to pack:

? Bedding: Sleeping bags, sheets, blankets and pillows are usually the camper's responsibility. Most beds are twin size or smaller and may be bunk style. Some camps supply linens.
Towels: Usually supplied by the camper.
Clothing: Most camps supply a list of recommended clothing that varies with the climate. Be sure to pack long pants (for hikes and/or horseback riding) as well as shorts. Comfortable, durable shoes are a must, while special footwear is advisable for certain activities (tennis, hiking, horseback riding). Use a permanent marker or name tags to identify your child's belongings. Some camps require campers to wear uniforms. Some camps will furnish the uniforms while others will provide you with ordering information.
Toiletries: A small bag can be handy for toiletries if a camper has to walk to a separate building for showering and bathing. It is wise to pack sunscreen, lip balm and insect repellent, soap, toothpaste and toothbrush, shampoo, a hairbrush and comb, and deodorant (if your child uses it).
Laundry: Generally, sessions under two weeks don't include laundry service. You might send a pillow case or laundry bag to store dirty clothing.
Equipment: Camps usually provide items such as oars, life jackets and craft materials, but check with the camp to be sure. The camper may want to bring a tennis racquet, musical instrument or backpack. Don't pack radios, televisions, portable CD players, stereos, food or hunting knives.
Spending Money: Camps have different policies on children bringing spending money. Some have stores that sell T-shirts, film, candy and other items. Check with the camp staff.
Medicine: Any medication should be properly labeled in its original container with dosage instructions and given to the camp's medical personnel for safe keeping.
Insurance: Camper health and accident insurance may be provided by the camp. You might be asked to bring information of family health and accident coverage. Be sure to ask the camp director if there are additional charges for insurance.
Day Camps

If overnight camp is not the right choice for your youngster or if your child is younger than 7, check into the many summer day camp programs available in your local community. YMCAs, scouting programs and parks and recreation departments often provide day camps. It can even prepare your child for overnight camp. Some points to consider when choosing a day camp:

Accreditation: The ACA has specific standards only for day camps. Find out if the day camp is ACA accredited.

Training: Is the staff trained in safety, supervision, counseling, problem solving and other issues important to working with young children?

Cost: Is the price all-inclusive or do extra charges apply for transportation, horseback riding, food service, group pictures, T-shirts and other items?

Transportation: If before and after camp is offered to accommodate working parents, who is with the children and what activities take place then?

Lunch: Is lunch served, or do campers bring their own?

Swimming: If swimming is offered, are lessons included, or is swimming only recreational?

Supervision: Does one counselor stay with a group all day? Or are campers free to roam from one activity to another? If so, who supervises children in the interim?

Visits: Are parents allowed to drop by for visits?

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Summer Camp - It's More Than a Vacation
 
Preparing Children for the Summer Camp Experience

Preparing Children for the Summer Camp Experience

MARTINSVILLE, Ind. - While summer seems far away, parents are already considering where to send their child for summer camp. Before camp begins, there are some preparations to consider that may make the child's camp experience more fun and rewarding.

"Summer camp is more than a vacation for children," says Bruce Muchnick, Ed.D., a licensed psychologist specializing in child and adolescent development. "At camp, kids learn to appreciate the outdoors, develop companionship and pick up skills that enhance self-reliance, cooperation and interdependence. These skills will remain with them into adulthood."

Parents should consider the following suggestions to increase their child's opportunity for a rewarding camp experience:

Consider camp as a learning experience. This is an opportunity for a child to explore a world bigger than his/her neighborhood and a chance for parent and child to practice "letting go." Letting go allows children to develop autonomy and a stronger sense of self, make new friends, develop new social skills, learn about teamwork, be creative and more. This time also allows parents an opportunity to take care of themselves so that they will feel refreshed when their child returns home.

Prepare for camp together. Decisions about camp -- where to go and what to pack - should be a joint venture, keeping in mind the child's maturity. If a child feels a part of the decision-making process, the chances of having a positive experience will improve.

Talk about concerns. As the first day of camp nears, some children experience uneasiness about going away. Talk about these feelings. Communicate confidence in his/her ability in dealing with being away from home.

Have realistic expectations. Camp, like the rest of life, has high and low points. Every moment is not filled with wonder and excitement. Encourage children to have a reasonable and realistic view of camp. Discuss both the ups and downs the child may encounter. Make sure the child does not feel pressured to succeed at camp. For the child, the main purpose of camp is to relax and have fun.

Once the child arrives at camp, he or she may experience some apprehension related to the fear of the unknown and/or the fear of failure in new situations. Some refer to this as "homesickness," which can take the form of stomachaches, headaches, occasional misbehavior (in hopes of being sent home) or even statements about "hating" camp. "Most kids need a couple of days to adjust to life at camp and being away from home," says Muchnick. "They miss familiar surroundings, parents, pets and friends. Overcoming homesickness, upsets in the cabin and learning to care for oneself are important challenges that can be faced at camp."

Preparing Children for the Summer Camp Experience
 
Why Are Kids Coming to Camp (and Why Are Their Parents Sending Them There?)

Why Are Kids Coming to Camp (and Why Are Their Parents Sending Them There?)
By Randy Faris, Director Hummer Camp

What makes five million kids leave home every summer? And why are their parents glad to see them go? While every parent and child relationship has their moments when both parties would love to call it quits, these smiling kids are running off to summer camp, where they'll spend from just a few days to all summer long trying their hands at everything from pottery making to driving a Hummer across 4-wheel drive trails in central Utah.

The summer camp phenomenon can trace its roots to early 1900's American culture, and according to Jeffrey Solomon, Executive Director of the National Camp Association, "Camps of all types continue to flourish. We're finding a growing interest in adventure camps, specialty camps, and those that cater to both older campers and a more international crowd. We first reported on this trend several years ago, and we're delighted to see the role that summer camps are now playing in the new global economy. Children from all over the world are coming together to enjoy activities, gain an appreciation for the diversity of the world's many cultures, and to learn and improve communication while developing new friendships."

Parents, too, are excited about the fresh opportunities found in modern day camps. "We could never find anything to get our kids off the couch", say Pat and Leland Kidd, parents with three camp-aged kids from 11 to 16 years old. "We'd never been to camp ourselves, so the idea of sending them off for two weeks of high adventure never dawned on us. . . . We'd resigned ourselves to their chorus of woe and boredom every summer, and frankly, we were beginning to hope for year 'round schools so we wouldn't have to deal with keeping them occupied and out of trouble."

Pat and Leland eventually selected two different camps for their children, with the youngest opting for a nearby non-profit facility with traditional summer camp fare. "Our 11 year old is tough to keep focused, and he enjoyed the variety this camp had to offer. The older kids, on the other hand, are at that age where unless they can engage in something that has wheels and a motor, they're simply not interested. We found a camp that specialized in off-road driving skills, and they not only came back as better drivers, they also gained a sense of responsibility behind the wheel. That's something we've struggled to teach them, yet we all know it's vital for their safety and the safety of others while they're out on the road."

"This is precisely what parents are looking for," points out Mr. Solomon. "You've heard the phrase 'It takes a community to raise a child'. It's a very true statement, and the summer camp community can play a starring role in our young people's lives. Our kids today are the first generation to grow up with the Internet, a virtual cyber-community where they can explore for hours on end. That's all well and good, but they need to learn from a multitude of venues, and summer camp lets them trade their big blue computer screen for some good old fashioned big blue sky. Camp is a living, breathing, hands-on experience," continues Solomon. "Some of what they need to learn just can't come off a computer - they need to be there, live and in person."

Delayne Lolohea, a single parent with three teenage kids, sighs relief when camp time rolls around. "It's a break for me, too. I like letting someone else take charge and dream up the activities that will keep them busy, and where they can try so many things under just one roof." When her house goes empty and there's time to reflect, Delayne notes, "Trading in the chaos for two full weeks of living in a library takes some getting used to. But it gives me a chance to regroup, and when they return, we can talk about camp for weeks on end. They'll gush on and on about the many different things they tried, and they'll keep me, grandma, grandpa and all their friends laughing with stories of camp. It's hard for me to generate this kind of enthusiasm, and with teenagers, I'm often grateful for any kind of positive conversation starter."

The kids seem just as grateful, too. Casey, a veteran summer camp attendee, states, "I can't do this kind of stuff around home. I kind of like getting out on my own, and I think this will help me when I get older. You get to meet lots of different people, and you see they're not always that much different than you. For instance, other kids' parents have funny rules, too. Sometimes I've learned that maybe I'm better off with the parents (and rules) that I already have."

Jesse, who'd never been to summer camp before, agrees. "I had no idea what to expect; I just knew I was a little nervous, plus I'm shy anyway. After about three days, though, you realize you're all in this together and that everyone else is a little nervous, too. Then you just start having fun, and looking forward to a bunch of neat things to do and places to see that you've probably only read about. I think camp helped me grow up a lot, and my friends there helped me learn about myself and gave me confidence that I could do things I hadn't tried before."

Jesse's parents cite an overall improvement in his self esteem, noting, "Jess just keeps talking about his experience, from some of the daily activities to camping out with his new friends. He felt like 'one of the guys', and this probably meant more to him than anything else. Summer camp was the best way, as parents, we could do that for him."

Camp enrollments continue to grow, and as long as there are parents with busy schedules and kids with widely diverse interests, these icons of American culture should host many new generations to come. Summer camps are fast becoming fundamental fare for today's active youth sporting appetites for more experienced-based learning. Parents seeking creative and stimulating opportunities for their children are adding camps to their cache of tools for developing confidence, building values, and improving self-esteem.

Why Are Kids Coming to Camp

Plenty list of links in this link... You can read them...

I got an influence from my neighbor for agree to send my oldest son to 2 weeks holiday in Rome, Italy with his mates and neighbor's son. I noticed that my son motivate more and more... which is good for him... Of course I told him how I feeling for let him go and don't want any happeend to him...

GalaxyAngel, I hope this links I provide will help ....

 
Um, if my son is in his age, I won't allow him to go on trips stuffs like that...
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Yeah same here, I almost signed it by allowing him to join, but I changed my mind... :shrugs:
 
10 tips for getting your kid into summer camp
When school’s out for summer, will your child have something fun to do?


Sending children away to summer camp can be hard on everyone involved, especially at first. But the camp experience is something that has helped countless kids make new friends, learn new skills and come home brimming with newfound confidence. And if you’re a parent who works full time, this move also can give you untold relief from stress about child care in the summer months.

With approximately 10,000 camps across the country, though, how are you supposed to pick one? And just how much money will you have to spend?

The following tips can help you navigate the selection process.
1. Get the ball rolling. If you haven’t already found a sleep-away camp for this summer, now is a good time to concentrate on choosing one. Most enrollments happen between December and March. After that, you could land on waiting liststhat never yield openings. (The deadlines may not be as onerous for day camps in your area, but ask just in case.)

2. Reflect on your child’s interests and personality. Just because the child of someone you know liked a certain camp, that doesn’t mean yours will. The same camp might not even be a good fit for two siblings from the same family. Interview a variety of camp directors until you get a good sense of what will be best for your child.

3. Decide between specialized or general. For a first sleep-away camp experience, many counselors recommend camps with a general focus so a child can discover new interests. A host of specialty camps also have emerged in recent years, focusing on everything from ballet to diving to football to science to video-game animation to overseas archeological digs, so remember to consider those too.

4. Count the costs. Privately run sleep-away camps charge about $400 to $2,000 a week – a price tag that typically covers general activities, meals, basic medical care and incidentals such as laundry. You can search for camp details on the Web sites of the National Camp Association, the American Camping Association, MySummerCamps.com and numerous other camp-directory Web sites.

5. You can find bargain sleep-away camps. Camps offered by non-profit and service organizations such as church groups, YMCA, YWCA, Boy Scouts of America and Girl Scouts of the USA generally cost less than privately run camps — between about $175 and $500 a week. Some church camps charge just $10, and some camps charge low-income children nothing at all.

6. Day camps can be great deals. Check now with your city or county recreation department about daytime camps in your area. Many charge $30 to $150 a week for a wide range of activities, from sports to nature walks to cultural programs to swimming. (Note that some of the camp possibilities mentioned in tips 5 and 6 can end up being less expensive than day care. Some “pre-school” day camps will accept children as young as 3.)

7. Ask about subsidies, financial aid and payment plans. Most camps offer scholarships based on need. Apply for scholarships as early as possible, and never assume that you earn too much to qualify. Most camps also allow you to spread costs out over several months if needed.

8. Inquire about refund policies. Some camps never provide refunds, while some do so only by a certain date or if your child gets sick. That’s why it’s so important to ask about the policies up front.

9. Factor in other costs. Most camp fees do not cover specialized activities, such as horseback riding or field trips, or specialized gear, such as team uniforms. Also, don’t forget about the costs of care packages and spending money for your child. Once you’ve tallied everything up, compare the total dollar amount for the camp experience with the amount you’re likely to spend on food, activities and care if your child doesn’t go anywhere this summer. Sometimes the cost difference will be staggering; in other cases, it will be surprisingly negligible. This can affect your decision as well.

10. Consider timing. If your child tends to get homesick, you might be tempted to choose a camp session that’s very short. Many camp counselors say longer stays give shy children enough time to overcome homesickness and make friends.


Getting your kid into camp - 10 Tips - MSNBC.com
 
mostly parents always knew let kids going summer camp trips they parents will knew it! or teenages will spend with grandparent's house or staying with friend's house for few days or 2 weeks or less as 2 weeks but when i was underages 21 years old im gone at my friend's house about 2 weeks for visit and have good times but if your kids should try staying with grandparent's house or friend's house but im learn i can stay at my grandmother's home for weeks during my spring break and sometimes im staying at my friend's house for spring break but you can tell your kids for try where staying at?

And no european trips without parent's permission till reach 18-21 years old or plus family will going on european vacation that would be fine together than without family's knowledges!

i never been gone London,England before but my mom took me to London,England on Nov.2002 when i was 21 years old i can allowed going on european trips for first times.
 
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