Taking Sides is for Babies

[PePe LePew]

One time when me and another person had a problem with each other, never in my life would I go in the chatroom and be telling people my problem with someone, I don't do that stuff like that, it is very wrong and that's very personal should be work out at home, not in the chatroom...

But this person stabbed me in the back few times and went in the chatroom spilling out everything about me and got many people taking sides with this person who had a problems with me and this person was looking for attention and pity from others...

I asked this person why do you go in the chatroom and be talking about me, which is called "Lacks of Privacy" and "Backstabbers"...

I even noticed that many deaf or hearing impaired really believed and taking sides with this person against me do not know exactly what's going on between me and this person, they do not lives in our shoes or lives in our home has no right to be taking sides or feeling pity for this person by going against me is pretty childish thing to do...

I do not know why would this person go in the chatroom looking for trouble, yes this person cannot keeps it to themselve for privacy, it's sad that many deaf or hearing impaired condone it by accepting and believed what they hears which they do not know exactly what's happening, I get blamed and accused of something I did not do and everyone in the chatroom believed what this person says about me, it's cruels very cruels, not nice...

They do not know the truth between me and this person, this person thinks is a president, bigger and better than me and acted like a movie star, thinks everyone should know about our problems, I told this person we are not famous people here, why should everyone know, it's none of their business to know what's going on in our private life which you do not know anything about their private life, why tell them, is what I told this person why do it, it's immature and stupid...

I told this person you allowed people to know more about our private life when you don't know about their private life, it's wrong to tell people about your private life that should be kept private and personal...

This person did says untrue things about me in the chatroom and one of my ex-roommate found out that this person lied about me and she had to cleared this mess up for me to let people know what this person said about me is not true, she sure is my true friend and she cares about me and is furious with this person for lying about me to people in the chatroom, she was angry with this person, this person had alots of problems in life, didn't come from a good family, is mean, hateful and spiteful at that time...

Advise to wife and husband, keeps your personal plms at home, don't brings your personal plms about your wife or husband in the chatroom, it's immature and childish...

Same goes for boyfriend and girlfriend who are in a relationship too...

Keeps your private life and your personal life at home, not in the chatroom...

Taking sides is for Grade school children, we're adult out in this world, not kids anymore...

Getting attention don't works nor does getting pity don't works either.

 

[VamPyroX]

That's what I tell my friends. I tell them not to reveal too much or get too personal with online issues.

 

[Angel]

Yeah, Vampy is right on that, everyone is a stranger online, you can chat with them but don't tell them everything about yourself, otherwise it will be spread around, people likes to talk, teasing , mocking etc and also twisted things around just to get the attention etc, some people may think it fun to hurt someone by spreading out other people's personal lives on forums, chats, etc, ....acting like a bunch of fools, just don't let it effect you personally, as you know these sort of troublmakers don't have anything better to do with their lives but wasting their time ruining someone's else..Some people just haven't grow up yet ya know...I'm sorry that this had happened to you, I've been in that situation myself several of times, I don't give a hoot what they say about me....It's good to know that I've become quite famous already....

 

[JLFWildKat]

That's why I hardly ever talk about my personal life to anyone online. Some I know I can trust. But I still limit myself also. Because ya just never know really.