You have excuse after excuse. "That person is better than average", "that person is a star", "that doesn't count".
If everyone is better than average, average changes.
And as for the 35 db question, I've explained that to you several times. One does not want to over amplify the lows, so that you can't hear the highs. Hearing results shouldn't slope down, if they do, you need to lower the gain in the lows. Low frequencies already have more power, so you can't make then louder than the high's.
You just don't believe me.