If you have ever watched small children playing with toys, you will see this. There will be some toys that no one plays with for a long time. Then, one child will start playing with the toy nobody wants, and soon another child will want to grab that toy, and a fight will break out. This is the mentality of a cheater, to move to different places in life without regard to others. You have no reason to let your esteem drop; after all, she is a CHEATER and you were faithful. Believe me, that is a much better position from which to move on in life. Time will heal....
