Thank you all again for your sound advice and sympathy as well as sharing your experiences with me. It has really helped me get better perspective.
I really don't think she'll change, nor wants to. I really feel bad for the guy she's seeing wife. I know where they live and want to go and tell her so bad. She shouldn't have to go through this lying and deception.
Being away from her for a couple weeks now, my missing her is fading a little bit, but my hurt does not go away....like I feel like I have no self image now cuz of all this.
