I agree. I don't have any ring tones on my Sidekick 3 because I never use the phone, I just use AIM, text, and email - I use prepaid unlimited data plan - $10 every 10 days. I see no sense in having ring tones, even if I could talk on the phone - which I cannot anyway - because I don't want to draw attention to myself when my phone rings (people do call me - always a wrong number because I never recognize the number the call came from) if I am on a crowded city bus or at a restaurant. It'd be quite embarrassing, and I would be like "what are you looking at me for?!" without realizing that my phone had rang and is playing ring tones and it has attracted attention. I actually also have the phone ringer turned off, and everything on Sidekick 3 is on vibrate - it used to have sounds when I first bought it (I can hear the sounds when I get a new IM or text or whatever) and I turned all of that off and set everything to vibrate. I don't need that kind of attention. I'm not an immature teenager trying to be so cool. Teenagers and young adults who do this looks like EPIC FAILS.