I also think in pictures.
Botti, yup that totally fits the term
The real sad thing is that it actually happens-
Bebonang I liked what you wrote too, about family members trying to pressure someone to be something they're not. It seems like when there's expectations and un-acknowledged preconceptions like that, that is THEIR problem - but then they can make he problem as being deaf, which it never was.
Rebecca - certainly you are NOT imperfect! I think you are beautiful and smart just like Bebonang, too. No one on here is imperfect -but other people make that up!