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Why do we need fixing? This is what frustrates me *SO* much! I am *NOT* imperfect. Or abnormal. I see the world in an unique way. I view it in pictures. I am visual, not verbal. In doing so I see so many things that hearies do not nor will they ever. Oh, this make me mad. 
Pressure into hearing world because easier for them. NOT us!
My parents put me in hearing school. No discussion on what would be good for me. Throw me to wolves. Thanks Mum and Dad. :roll:
Thank god they do not subject me to surgery to fix what will never *be* fixed and put foreign object in my skull. Thank god! At least they only stole my first language from me when they took sign away from me. :roll: Force me to speak English even though I don't understand language but learn because smart.
Of 14 children in my family, 12 now living, I am only deafie. I am also the only child with Bachelors and Masters Degree. Only child. Yeah, not normal. 
If I speak with co-workers I use perfect English but it is hard. It takes time. But I do it. When I give seminars I speak perfect English. I do it. It's hard and it takes time but I do it.
Conforming to English is *SO* incredibly challenging but I do it because I am single Mum and need to support children.
You are beautiful and smart for just the person you are. I read many, many of your posts and you are *SO* wise and kind.
