But doesn't a woman need to be independent to some extent, regardless of where she what kind of life path she wants?
In otherwords, I don't trust a whole lot of men. I think it is sweet when guys open doors and watch their language and such. A part of me wants to live in that kind of respect long-term. However, I feel expected to continue school even though I know I would be fully content being a stay-at-home mom. Thus, I am responsible for myself until I am with someone I trust. On the flip side, being independent creates a (false?) distance.
I am not sure how to explain what I'm thinking. I have to be independent, but the lifestyle that I want to pursue involves being dependent on a man. (Not dependent in an irresponsible way, but in a mutual dependence).
Does anyone else see the oxymoron?
