should women respect or accept men with diversity?

nat84

New Member
Joined
Jun 1, 2006
Messages
173
Reaction score
0
I wonder if you know that women should respect or accept men with diversity like at Gallaudet, CSUN, RIT/NTID, or other universities/high school. It seems that most of women never respect or accept men with diversity same as girls do to boys at first place often. I believe that it is wrong because I had experienced of this seen girls always do hurt boys' feelings. Before this time, girls always discriminate on boys when they judge on boys with diversity in first place. It causes that boys become suffered from their painful out of discriminated by the girls like seen at school for the deaf or gallaudet.

Some reasons why boys with diversity withdrawal from school for the deaf or gallaudet because of being discriminated by the girls, later, gallaudet university start to bring up about challenge students who must deal with others' diversity or they got consquences for the first time. I thank some or gallaudet adminstration who take role their action to challenge majority students, they are in being power men whose belong to this oldest society.

From my experience, when I was in elementary or middle school, I remember my teacher hired teacher assistant to aide several deaf students with diagonsed. Once as my parents came with me to school, asked me why those teacher assistant are available for students, seems like try to protect them from being isolated or else. I had told my parents, I had no idea why, teacher didn't tell me detail about this. I was sure some hearing parents or students embrassed of students with diagonsed but they never understand them often. At the point, I encountered one cute guy but he did not understand anything, because of his suffering with diagonsed. He stared and smiled at me in first place when hadn't introduced myself yet, but I was openly minded at him while welcome each other. Sometimes my teacher got tired of his interrupted or dispruting behavior in classroom make some students freaked out. His teacher assistant tried to control of him but she had boundaries from him while in classroom, I had seen few close-minded girls started to avoid and run away from the class. I ran to catch them, tell please do not upset yourself, they told me one guy who started to act strangely in front of them. But they did not understand about guy with diagonsed. One time, I tried to help him when in lunch, playground, or somewhere else, sometimes he flirted at me all the time. I was patient with him, I was stressed to look him out who always start to bother others. He said "I like you, I want go date with you", I was like...I think he is too aggressive, want to be friend with him. Often, he never make eye contact at right way and keep his hands or arms around me, because of his suffering with diagonsed. I guess his parents never helped him well or doctor did not give the cure for him. At the school party, I got date, we attended the gym where we met some friends at first place. We talked with other friends for while, eating little appizeter, start to dance together. One time, I noticed guy stand and behind other girls who did not see him, always pay attention on boys. Later, I keep my eye contact and smile at my date, got first kiss at time. In middle of time, one guy caught us, came to me, start to angry with me. I was sigh, try to explain at him, keep him calm down, but he increased upset, my guy told him go away for this time. Ever he push me away, my guy try to face him away, my guy push him hardly, he got hit head from floor, I was surpised when my guy got fight with him after he kick my guy's private parts. Everyone looks out at them while they're in fighting, I was screaming, try to take my guy out of fight with him. Principal and teachers were involved with them, try to take guy away from us,they was hardly to control of guy when guy kicked and punched them. My guy and I were run away from the party, we hope guy need stops out of control at time. next one or few days, my teacher came talk to me, I was seems do not know what about, told me girls' parents came to see principal about guy who bother her too much, i never tell my parents about but only my teacher do. I discovered my teacher instructed principal to get some involved this case with guy makes me wondered. I explained to my teacher about guy who got upset with me who date someone else, he never understand of our friendship since I help him, my teacher keep think jump conclusion, try to get proof from all of us. Later, I was surprised boy's parents walk away with guy to leave from school, they looked at me for a little while, I do not know what's going on. My teacher did not tell me anything, but one girl told me guy is left from school was told by the principal. I was seem disappointed, wonder why he had hard time, being in trouble was reptuation by school. I am sure no one wants girls like him in the way or never be nice to him causes him worse. I guess I never see guy again since he left for another school or unknown place.

In my high school, I was grown up girl and I was being welcomed by students when around in hallway. One time, I noticed one guy who was autism, seems stand and think himself as someone else, he was escorted by teacher assistant to classroom. I would remember I met guy who had diagonsed include several guys in elementary and middle school. Later, I was practice on cheerleader during afternoon, I caught up my eye to guy with autism walk, realized he looks older than me, no one would walk with him out. One of my teammate told me, ingore him, he is special needs student, don't you know he is infamous, no one likes him. I was say nothing, was being listen to girl, once my coach look over guy, yell at him, please leave here, call someone else escort him away. Often, I was at lunch with friends or at cheerleader practice, these girls were sick of guy who tried to close them around. One girl next to me, told me guy is looking older than us, he would have graduated before, but still here for years, I was like "Oh, I know", another girl told me, just walk away from guy if you do not like, another thing, there is some jocks here for you. i looked ahead of jocks, make me smile, one handsome and almost bodybuilder start to look at me for a while. During at my cheerleader practice, I saw often football jocks keep away from guy, try to scare him. One time, I met handsome guy, who plays football at outside locker room, he smiled and handshake, little conservation with me. I was like, very anxious when met handsome guy in the way, he introduced himself and had talent with football. Days later, someone recommended me to voluneeter as a work experience, came to work with special need students, I have no idea why they suggest me as a freshman who would work with. While I was working there, once, I helped some projects with students, guy looked at me, came to tell me need help, I was like, I am patient, he do not know who I am or see me anything, I start to help him for a little while. He did not ask me what my name, because of his autism, he is only focus on his doing, did not make eye contact with me. I was start to understand, I would have to be with him for a long while, some ask me help others. Later, I noticed that teacher ask guy to escort with him for talk privately, I have no idea what they going on. Days later, some girls talk to me about guy I work at, I was seem like would not talk about my work at, I realize girls keep noisy or gossip about him. I would think I forget of this guy, I saw handsome guy again, start to long conservation with him. I do not know how to tell him if he is really cool, maybe, let him ask me out. We sit lunch together with his teammate, we had nicely talking often like at lunch or practice. In moments, they still talked about special needs students include guy who always obsessed with cheerleader. One time, I was trying to talk at guy with autism, he seems not pay attention at me, keep his mind on classwork. I talked with his teacher, I found these freaky thing about guy that I feel sorry for him. I would have say nothing about guy with autism who is being not helped by their parents cause him trouble. He is about early 20s and still here in high school for years, never go out of real world. He was being rejected to date by the girls who do not got educated for understand people with autism. I was seem learned that biology teacher did not tell me so much about autism because he never research on it much. I decided to research on autism from the intrnret, include other people with diagonsed, it seems that very complicated to tell me much information. I realized that couples' conflict gene may impact on children become autism is very seldom but today, discovered children with autism about over 10,000 in the United States. I found out that people with autism or others may have difficult time to social or relationship with someone, would never got their successfully. Later, I noticed guy come to me, want talk with me, I would have hardly understand him, I keep to help him in the way. But some girls do not want me help him, it makes me confused, why I would have mean to this guy. While at working, guy start to tell me do anything, try to being too aggressive at me. I was start to patient with him for a while. I decided to quit my work experience, find another place after talked to teacher. Later, guy start to look for me, I was nicely told him about my personal reason, I can't get focus on him, I was busy to focus on schoolwork and practice. One time, handsome guy ask me date for homecoming, I was start to excited about his invite me to be his date. Often, he start to find me when I am conservation with this guy, handsome guy ask him to not talk right now, please leave, he seems upset himself. I do not know if he seems think I like him, he started to follow me after lunch or practice all the time. I was scared of this guy who might find me anywhere or know where I lived, one time, he showed up at front of my house, my parents got angry and told him go away, I keep told him, please do not come here due to impolite manner, he ran right away. My parents start to freak out based on his age who is looking older, I tried to explain them, they don't understand in the way. I was upset myself, using send email to my guy each other. I was worried if this guy who may be obsessed with me, I talked to some girls about them. They told me do not talk to him again, keep away from him. My guy came to me, hug me, try to protect me away from this guy. Before homecoming night, I was on football game and support my guy who is on football game against other team. I discovered this weird guy who is still alone himself and watch football game, annoyed people around for hours. I feel impatient, try to focus on our cheerleader time. After the victory of our football home, we went to some place for dinner with friends then home. I keep think myself, won't worried if guy showed up at my house again. I dressed up then got picked up by my guy to party. We attended the party, met some friends around, eat some appetizer. Once as he hold my hand, lead me to dance together. My guy and I looked each other and smiled at same time. We got kissed each other, it makes me feel happy with him. In middle of time, we got interrupted by this guy who came to near us. I was started to frustated myself and my guy start to get straight with him, try him ask to leave. We saw this guy started to got angry with us and want fight with him. I told my guy to not fight with him, just walk away from him. This guy push me away, my guy came to close his face, yell him away, someone told teachers to get this guy away from us. After that, they escort with him outside, we keep relax away, we danced and find out about king and queen, again, we make out while dancing together. After end of the party, we walked outside to the car. We discovered this guy keep came back to us, he tried to threat at us, my guy ran to fight with him, I was screaming, told my guy to not fight with this guy, i try to take him away from this guy, ever this guy punched my face, my guy punched his face and almost beaten up on his face. Ever some people try to take them apart away. Then we looked at him crying and several blood on the ground, my guy told some people not to look at him, just go home, take me go straight home, I kept questionnare on him. It seems no one would helped this guy, he still laying there on the ground. Days later, i found out my guy got suspended from school for fight with this guy, ever this guy got suspended from school, his parents blame on the principal for not take care of this guy. I would know his parents mad at us for not accept this guy, some friends concerned at me all the time. My parents worried about me who being situation with guys, just not see my guys for weeks. On halloween day, I was freaked out this guy is still following when we walked out to the mall then go home, I keep hide away from him. I would have my guy is with me but he banned from going to school until his end of supension. On the night of halloween, my parents were out of town, I babysit two children whose my friend's at her house. One time, I discovered this guy wore dark costume outside and walk around the house, he knew where my friend lived, I keep children to hide place. I called my guy, told him, this guy came here to the house, try to get me. My guy started to worried and dress up to find me here. This guy knew me here, broke the door backyard, enter the kitchen, I saw him here try to look for me, I was scared, I ran to my bedroom, he finds me ahead, chase me out, I locked out the door, this guy smash the door, I was scream, sit down behind the closet, told him, please stop and go away from me, he got angry and try to grab me, I told him, you are really sick man, I do not like you, I have a boyfriend, he kept upset himself, do not have me like him, I push him away, he got hit his head by desk. I ran out, call my friend and boyfriend, know he is on the way to find me, this guy stand and came to apporach me, I told him, I want you stop to seeing me again, my boyfriend will be here, it keeps me angry at him. Few mintues later, He jumped over me, fall down onto the floor, i took children out of house, try to run away from this guy, find my boyfriend who find us safely. Again, my friend find us, he saw this guy run away from us. I was crying and scared, hug my boyfriend, we go home right away. Next day, I talked to principal and teachers about what happened with this guy. Later, they decided to push this guy out of school, never came back again. His parents blame at us for not accepting him, they do not like us reject this guy of his disability. It makes me feel bad, we told that his parents needs take this guy to get right educated but it never happen. I never seen him again, he is sent to mental state hospital. After that, I broke up with my boyfriend because he left college, I was being single myself for three years. I keep to understand about people with diversity until my senior year, I had seen younger students who had hard times, sometimes, I helped them at time.

Right now, I realized that the variety of situations based on people with diversity or disability. I do not know schools or students discriminated against students with disability until my end of high school years. It seems that wrong for normal girls not respect or accept guys with disability ever if it is diversity. I know the laws do not allow anyone discriminated against person with disability but since schools had do nothing with this. Since from now, it is much better to understand, try to establish zero tolerance policy for students who violate will lead to consquences. Same as colleges, try to be respect or accept people who is good heart and have mind to communicate with them. If any girls do not respect at guy with disability, it will be acceptable, it doesn't matter because if it is guy is good heart or looking.

Remember, God loves everyone and care about people who need their live. He knows that girls had difficult time to respect guys with disability or diversity, he wants girls to be respect and accept guys who likes you in the way for good reason. You know some catholic priest do not accept on girls what they did to guys with disability, they have to punish girls for disrespect guys with disability, it comes from the issues since years ago. We want to see guy become happy and not make upset if girls would respect them, too.

Now, you see many deaf people with disability who are singles and who did not find any women in the United States because of being discriminated such as rejected by women often. I feel sorry for deaf men with disability who are singles, they need help that I am sure of, I pray for them to get his finding someone else who is good hearted for them. Any you had seen single men like that, because of my told about issue between women and men with diversity?
 
Last edited:
should women respect or accept men with diversity?

Yes as long as they're nice to begin with. Honest niceness rules.
 
What is the meaning of a "man with diversity"?
 
God, this is such a long post. No offense, but I don't even know what you mean.

Some clarification please?
 
Was she not talking about a classmate with autism?

Obviously, my answer would be of course you should accept him.
 
Back
Top