I am one of the few in support of the oral only approach if used logically and realistically because it worked for me.
Actucally many if not most oral-only educated dhh kids have significent reading and spoken language concerns. It's not just ASLers who have trouble with reading and writing. The problem is that so many of us approach English as a second language. I know that the use of English here isn't exactly perfect, but if you look at other forums which have a significent percentage of people who use English as a second language, you'll see that the grammartical and syntaxial errors are virtually identical to those that are made by deafies! English is a VERY difficult language.....and I say that as someone who LOVES William Safire and is always reading linguistic texts.
Yes, some oral kids do really well and are high achieving, but quite a few of those kids are products of families who are high-powered and over-programmed, and are the types of families who buy their kids toys that increase their SAT scores. Other kids who excell at oral skills are the type of kids whose facility with English is impressive even for hearing kids! And there are always exceptions. Even many oral sucesses need Sign terps for school and other sitituions! Hey, I know of an ASLer high schooler who has no oral skills, but who got a PERFECT 800 on the Verbal section of his SATs!
I see no evidence that oral-only or auditory-verbal approaches really work for the majority of dhh kids. One of the prime pieces of evidence is that deaf kids have lower verbal IQs then do hearing kids. Far as I know, that stat is universal, and includes oral-only kids.
Besides, educating a dhh kid oral-only is like educating a kid who is gifted at English but defeicent in math, by soley focusing on their defiencies in math.
Yes, our acheivement levels as a group have not been overly impressive....but when you think about it it does make a lot of sense. If I recall correctly, dhh kids' (nonverbal) IQs are higher then hearing kids IQs. Many if not most genius (sp?)/ gifted kids are underacheiving and don't do well in public school. Their school problems are VIRTUALLY identicial to special ed kids!
As for the orginal question. I strongly....and I mean STRONGLY feel that dhh kids need both languages. The debate really is over which language should be a dhh kid's first language. I see no reason why dhh kids cannot learn both English and ASL simulatiously. Hearing kids can pick up two (or more) languages simultanously. Yes, I know it's difficult for hearing parents to pick up Sign....but I think that if they demand that their dhh kid needs to develop oral skills, then hearing parents need to meet their dhh kids halfway and learn Sign!