Sex Offender Gets Custody Of Girl

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3-Year-Old's Family Wants Girl Back In Their Care After Mother's Death

MACCLENNY, Fla. -- Family and friends held up signs in front of the Baker County courthouse Monday asking for the public's help in getting a nearly 4-year-old girl back after a judge granted custody of her to a sex offender.

Last week, the judge found that the law requires Miranda Coleman be turned over to her legal, but not biological, father, Donald Coleman, because he was married to her mother. Her mother died, and now her family is begging to get the girl back in their custody, saying she shouldn't be living with a man who's a registered sex offender.

Miranda's mother's family said they're worried about her well-being, and despite all the legal documents and arguments, they don't want people to forget that at the middle of all the debate and drama is an innocent young girl.

Video: Baker County Custody Dispute

"We see her toys, and they're still in the same place," Becky Graves, Miranda's aunt, said while crying. "She doesn't wake up in the morning to tell us she loves us. She doesn't tell us she loves us before she goes to bed."

Donald Coleman

Graves said she has been brought to tears a lot lately since Miranda was taken away from her family by order of the courts.

Miranda will be 4 years old on Sunday. She'll likely spend her birthday with her legal father, Coleman, a registered sex offender.

"You can't play with a child's life," Graves said. "It's not a puppy. It's a human being."

The custody battle is long and complicated. Coleman had a relationship with Miranda's mother, Wanelle Coleman, years ago. He was 38 at the time, and she was just 14. Wanelle Coleman became pregnant and had Donald Coleman's child. Donald Coleman was charged with having sex with a minor and sent to jail.

But Wanelle and Donald Coleman said they were in love, so they stayed together, got married and had two more children.

Miranda was the result of an extra-marital affair. It was part of the reason Wanelle and Donald Coleman were going through a divorce in 2007. But before the divorce was final, and when Miranda was only weeks old, Wanelle Coleman died in a car crash, meaning Donald Coleman was still Miranda's legal father.

That's why a judge last week granted custody to Donald Coleman and not Wanelle Coleman's family, who fears for the little girl's safety in Donald Coleman's home.

"There's rodents and holes in the floor and wires hanging from the ceilings. There's exposed wires in the wall," Graves said of Donald Coleman's house.

Circuit court documents appear to tell a different story.

The motions filed allege Miranda's grandmother, Rita Manning, who's been raising Miranda since she was born, "wrongfully removed or wrongfully detained the minor child." Manning was charged with child neglect and contributing to the delinquency of a minor because she allegedly knew of the relationship Donald Coleman had with Wanelle Coleman when she was just a young teen, according to the documents.

An emergency motion in the documents reads, "Rita Manning has charges in the past relating to children, which cause concern for the safety and well-being of the child."

Manning's family, though, denies she is responsible for any wrongdoing and say she only signed off on the marriage because she felt it was best, given her daughter was already pregnant.

Friends and family of Miranda's late mother have been outside the courthouse for days now, protesting, asking for help. They want Miranda back, and they said they won't give up until they have her.

"It's awful," Graves said. "She's been with us since she's been born, and to have her snatched out of our arms is just as bad as losing her mom."

Donald Coleman was unavailable for comment Monday.

Donald Coleman was unavailable for comment Monday.

He also has custody of the three children he fathered with Wanelle Coleman. Wanelle's family is trying to get custody of them, too. They said they want all of Wanelle's children because they said they're at risk for some serious harm living with Donald Coleman because of his past.

Graves and her family said that as they fight to have Miranda back, they want the laws changed on who a sex offender can have custody of.

Sex Offender Gets Custody Of Girl - Jacksonville News Story - WJXT Jacksonville
 
The sex offender they are speaking of is the one that was married to the girls mother. She got pregnant by him when she was 14. They still charged him with being with a minor and labeled him as a sex offender. He has his other two natural children. The grandmother is a piece of work also she is the one that encouraged the 14 year old to marry this guy when she got pregnant. She is using the "sex offender" deal to be able to keep custody of the girl.

The whole thing is a mess. This guy is not even the girls biological father. This girl was created from an affair the mother had while married to the "sex offender"

I am wondering where and who is the biological father.
 
Right. This is a case of the sex offender registry being misused.
 
I feel it's a complicated mess!....no way would I let my 14 yr. old daughter marry a 38 yr. old man, even if she was pregnant. Plus, he's not the natural father of the 4 yr. old.
 
It doesn't matter if the child is his biological child or not. He is the legal father. The grandmother must show that the father is unfit to get custody of the child. Apparently, a judge has already determined that the father is fit. The grandmother is just playing the press to get sympathy.
 
Wow this is totally fucked up. What was the judge thinking of leaving a little girl in custody of a sex offender? Lets see if the judge will have any regrets when he finds out that the girl was eventually sexually harassed by her own "father". This is real stupid. Even if he was a good father I still will NOT let allow him have custody of any child even if he was a sex offender NO MATTER WHAT. He should've thought twice before he pulled his pants down on someone so much younger than him.
 
Wow this is totally fucked up. What was the judge thinking of leaving a little girl in custody of a sex offender? Lets see if the judge will have any regrets when he finds out that the girl was eventually sexually harassed by her own "father". This is real stupid. Even if he was a good father I still will NOT let allow him have custody of any child even if he was a sex offender NO MATTER WHAT. He should've thought twice before he pulled his pants down on someone so much younger than him.

Well, it's not only what the judge is thinking. It is what the law on the books says to do.. Judge's job is to uphold the law and make people follow the laws.

A good judge would hate doing that but would follow the law to best of his ability cause that's his job.

As we all know, there are alot of judges that doesn't follow the law or follow what he wants the law to say and not what law says to do.

Having said that, I'm sure that judge hated what he had to do but did what the law said to do. If that is true, they would need to change the law to correct that.
 
Well, it's not only what the judge is thinking. It is what the law on the books says to do.. Judge's job is to uphold the law and make people follow the laws.

A good judge would hate doing that but would follow the law to best of his ability cause that's his job.

As we all know, there are alot of judges that doesn't follow the law or follow what he wants the law to say and not what law says to do.

Having said that, I'm sure that judge hated what he had to do but did what the law said to do. If that is true, they would need to change the law to correct that.

I think that pretty much sums it up.
 
I feel it's a complicated mess!....no way would I let my 14 yr. old daughter marry a 38 yr. old man, even if she was pregnant. Plus, he's not the natural father of the 4 yr. old.

Holy cow yes..........that is really creepy. A 38 year old man in love with a girl who barely started her first period? EWWWWWWWWWWWWW...........I mean god, you don't know anything when you're 14!
 
That whole situation is FUBAR.

I can understand why the judge granted custody to the father - because the grandmother let her own daughter marry the father when she was 14 - is she gonna allow the same thing to happen to her granddaughter?

The father did "the right thing" after doing the horribly wrong thing - he married the girl whom he got pregnant. The horribly wrong thing was getting a 14 year old pregnant - I mean WTF???

He did not sexually molest a family member - so I do not think he would molest his legal daughter ... but you never know. If he is taking care of his biological children, he has already proven he is a fit dad.

I am fairly certain his children were all interviewed and screened for any type of abuse before the judge made that decision.

It just seemed the judge had to make a call and pick the lesser evil.
 
Here is an update.
Miranda Wilkerson: Biological Father Misses Daughter, Worries about Sex Offender's Custody | firstcoastnews.com
MACCLENNY, Fla. -- James Wilkerson said the bond he has with his little girl is a special one.

"When I saw her right from the get go, I knew she was mine. It was the eyes, smile, I guess, the ears," said Wilkerson.

Wilkerson, the biological father, has been in Miranda Wilkerson's life since she was a baby. "I started seeing her, letting her know who her dad was."

MORE: Donald Coleman Speaks Out on Custody of Miranda

Wilkerson said after Miranda's mom was killed in a car wreck, he agreed to let Rita Manning, Miranda's grandmother, take care of her as long as he could still be in her life.

He saw her often, he said.

PICTURES: Miranda and Donald Coleman at Home

They liked to go to the river and swim. But he said now all he has are pictures of those outings. He hasn't seen his daughter since the court placed her with registered sex offender, Donald Coleman, last week.

Coleman is by law considered Miranda's legal father since he was married to her mom at the time of her birth. "I want her back here with me or back with her grandmomma. That's what I want," said Wilkerson.

Wilkerson is now fighting back trying to get his daughter out of the sex offender's home. He is working with an attorney and hopes to file a motion in the next couple of days that may help bring his daughter home.

"I'm stepping up and I'm gonna get my baby back," the father exclusively told First Coast News.

While Wilkerson has been arrested in the past for DUI and battery on an officer, he said. "I'm not a murderer, thief, child molester. Everybody's got a background."

Wilkerson said the best place for Miranda is with him. "I love her and Daddy's gonna be there for her."

He says he wants her back by Sunday, which is a big day for him and his little girl. That is when she turns 4-years-old.

First Coast News



Now the biological father steps in..
 
"I'm stepping up and I'm gonna get my baby back," the father exclusively told First Coast News.

I wonder why the biological father did not take the responsiblity in taking custody in the first place?? He just waited til the media started focusing on it before he took a stand.
 
I wonder why the biological father did not take the responsiblity in taking custody in the first place?? He just waited til the media started focusing on it before he took a stand.

...Or, the idea of a sex offender getting custody of his daughter creeped him out.

All I can say is, this is going to be CAH-RAZY. If I was deciding this mess, I'd force bio Dad and legal Dad into mediation to work out some sort of joint custody arrangement. As for Grandma, depending on how screwed up and controlling she is, either, she'd get visitation rights or supervised visitation.

Someone already said it, but I believe it. This is definitely FUBAR.
 
...Or, the idea of a sex offender getting custody of his daughter creeped him out.

All I can say is, this is going to be CAH-RAZY. If I was deciding this mess, I'd force bio Dad and legal Dad into mediation to work out some sort of joint custody arrangement. As for Grandma, depending on how screwed up and controlling she is, either, she'd get visitation rights or supervised visitation.

Someone already said it, but I believe it. This is definitely FUBAR.


I am not sure but I think "legal father" trumps "biological father" Will see how this plays out. !!
 
Wow this is totally fucked up. What was the judge thinking of leaving a little girl in custody of a sex offender? Lets see if the judge will have any regrets when he finds out that the girl was eventually sexually harassed by her own "father". This is real stupid. Even if he was a good father I still will NOT let allow him have custody of any child even if he was a sex offender NO MATTER WHAT. He should've thought twice before he pulled his pants down on someone so much younger than him.

Go back and read and then see if you understand better.:roll:
 
I wonder why the biological father did not take the responsiblity in taking custody in the first place?? He just waited til the media started focusing on it before he took a stand.

Getting his 15 minutes of fame.
 
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