Sex Behind Bars: a Look at Conjugal Visits in Prison

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Seventeen years ago, 17 states allowed conjugal visits. Today, only four states in the U.S. allow the privilege: California, Connecticut, New York and Washington.

Mississippi was the first state to allow what they called “extended family visits” where sex is permissible, usually with a legal spouse. In February 2014, the state ended the program because it was too costly and the state had to worry about babies being conceived while a parent is behind bars.

New Mexico is the latest to cancel its conjugal visits program in April 2014 for similar reasons (see the video above for more details).

History
Mississippi was the first state to legalized “sex visits” in the 1900s. The state used it as incentive to get prisoners to work harder in the farms they tended. Prostitutes charging only 50 cents for sex were brought in for inmates to choose from.

Who’s Eligible for Conjugal Visits in Prisons Today?
Conjugal visits are only allowed in medium or lesser-security prisons. They are not available in most federal prisons.

The rules vary in each state that allows them, but in all cases, the prisoner must apply for conjugal visitation privileges. They are ineligible if they’ve been in trouble in the past six months for any infringements like fighting, swearing or slacking in their daily tasks.

Inmates convicted of sex crimes or domestic violence, and those with life sentences, are not granted permission.

In certain states, like California and New York, the prisoner and the spouse must be legally married. The same applies to same-sex couples, but only in these two states.

How Often Can Prisoners Have Conjugal Visits?
There are three options: 6 hours, 12 hours and 24 hours. These visits are allowed on average once or twice a year and are dependent on the prisoner’s record. Prisoners who are only a year away from being released and have a clean record have the best chances of getting longer visits.

Contrary to what you may think, the visits aren’t all about sex. Sometimes entire families gather to eat, sleep and laugh together.

Where Do Visits Take Place?
Visits take place in a variety of settings but are usually within prison walls. The rooms are usually apartment style settings, complete with condoms, sheets, soap and towels. Some states use trailers, which are often called “boneyards” by prisoners. Food is not included but there is usually a kitchen available for prisoners and spouses to cook in.

Inspection of Inmates and Visitors
Conjugal visits aren’t all fun and games. In California, for instance, inmates must line up for inspection every four hours, even in the middle of the night. After the visit, inmates and visitors are usually searched. Inmates typically have their urine tested for alcohol and drugs, which are prohibited during visits.

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Not really 100% how I feel about this...Have read where in some prisons, they separate the Gays from the Straights....??....Still rape occurs.

Some men/women go into prison that have a family and are straight...come out Gay....Hence the debate that Gays are born that way...??
 
Prison conrrary to what many may wish or believe was never only ever just about punishment. That is and was only part of the idea of what became called penetenteries as opposed to say dungeons...but not the only idea
The diffeefnce lies in the idea anyway to reform the con, rather then just punish...dungeons of the medeaval kind with all the implements of torture, the rack, iron maiden, hungry rat in a cage devouring prisoners faces so on, are all good and well used punishments, but society finnaly realized though many still long for those days, that more was needed..hence reform or at the very least attempts at reform of convicts..
So while conjugal visits do go against The medeaval ideals of torture and punishment, they also do some good in allowing the con to be part of his family in the hopes that will make his reform deeper rooted...
Of course
The medeaval way is the cheaper of the lott...granted.....
As fof the title....
Prison sex is rampant and common amongst cons...most not consensual...
 
Sorry.....off topic, but why do I get a red flashing bar to view my arrest record whenever I read a post about prisons? :hmm: :lol:
 
What I find horrifying and wrong...is some prisoners go in for a minor crime, are straight w/families....not violent...but have to fight like animals to not be raped.....and the guards turn the other cheek...

They have to fight to earn the respect. :hmm:...Feel the prisons (all of them) should have separate quarters for the Gays and Straights....
 
I dont know...but since its now legal too.be married, i dont see why they would not.

fair play..


Anni you have a record...I got fine once for hoping the train with no ticket my husband was furious and son non stop calling me a crim..That was many years back learnt expensive lesson and somewhat humiliating walking into transport cops with everyone looking at me..fortunately no record
 
What I find horrifying and wrong...is some prisoners go in for a minor crime, are straight w/families....not violent...but have to fight like animals to not be raped.....and the guards turn the other cheek...

They have to fight to earn the respect. :hmm:...Feel the prisons (all of them) should have separate quarters for the Gays and Straights....

Indeed...re fighting like animals..to save your ass literally....
But heres the thing....and.its true..
Most of raping inside are done by straight cons...outside they are straighy. With girk friends, wives even...inaide the joint warps the mind, it really does, and straivht guys, i want to stress not every con.rapes, but many do, you becaome ananimal and act like one...depending how long your in...straight guys who wouks nwver fwthom taking it up the ass oe giving it....end uo soing just that...
Its not a gay thing....
It really isnt...
Its mainly a straight tbing.i know thats hard to fathom....but it is..but yoir mind gwts so warped...i guess onw csn srgue those doing it end up bi...but ive known cons reasleded who had bitches inside...go back to theie wife and kids outside..
What hapowna inside stays inside...
So it goes...
Segregatin gays and straights wont do much..if anythinf gays are more.the victims of rape...though thats changing..
 
Indeed...re fighting like animals..to save your ass literally....
But heres the thing....and.its true..
Most of raping inside are done by straight cons...outside they are straighy. With girk friends, wives even...inaide the joint warps the mind, it really does, and straivht guys, i want to stress not every con.rapes, but many do, you becaome ananimal and act like one...depending how long your in...straight guys who wouks nwver fwthom taking it up the ass oe giving it....end uo soing just that...
Its not a gay thing....
It really isnt...
Its mainly a straight tbing.i know thats hard to fathom....but it is..but yoir mind gwts so warped...i guess onw csn srgue those doing it end up bi...but ive known cons reasleded who had bitches inside...go back to theie wife and kids outside..
What hapowna inside stays inside...
So it goes...
Segregatin gays and straights wont do much..if anythinf gays are more.the victims of rape...though thats changing..

Hoichi, I started to answer Robin about her post concerning rape and gays, then I decided it just wasn't me, and said to myself "I'll let Hoichi answer this one". You said exactly what I was going to say. I did think everyone was aware that the raping in prisons takes place by mostly straight people. Think about it folks!
 
fair play..


Anni you have a record...I got fine once for hoping the train with no ticket my husband was furious and son non stop calling me a crim..That was many years back learnt expensive lesson and somewhat humiliating walking into transport cops with everyone looking at me..fortunately no record

O yes, Caz, I have a record a mile long! Where do you think I met Hoichi?

jk :giggle:
 
I wasn't aware...but yes, I've heard of straights getting raped...then they turn around and rape others...Can imagine the psychological effect it has upon men....

And it's also been noted that kids, upon being molested/raped...turn into pedros/rapists themselves....
 
ahhhhhhh I wont ask you about conjugal rights then. but if you want to unburned yourself with full confession look at me and the others as a priest,now spill the beans:)
 
O yes, Caz, I have a record a mile long! Where do you think I met Hoichi?

jk :giggle:

Shhhhh........(looks out window.eye balls.. both diractions twice....turns....covers hand and whipsers sign......)
 
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