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Does someone's profession determine whether or not you'd like to get to know that person?

Any other factors (background, status, etc.) determine whether or not you'd like to get to know that person?
 
Not for me..important they have a job instead of collecting SSDI for no reason.
 
Which profession makes no difference to me, though it's funny, because like Shel's preferences, I've never had a friend for any significant length of time who didn't work.

I'm surprised, but after considering my long-time friendships and new friendships that are growing, all of them are regular users of e-mail.
 
Just to make it clear that this is in regard to getting to know someone to date and marry. Not friends.
 
Oops. No, that wasn't clear at all. Not that it would make a difference in my case, as I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't a solid friend first . . . one who I was sure was over the novelty of deafness and well past it being a huge barrier.
 
ClearSky said:
Does someone's profession determine whether or not you'd like to get to know that person?

Any other factors (background, status, etc.) determine whether or not you'd like to get to know that person?
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Profession is not an issue for me, unless they work in a strip club or something. :)
 
What about if they were in prison? Wouldn't you want to know if they were rapist or murderer at one time? Would you even date or marry them knowing this?
 
If a person tells me about their criminal background before I get to know them properly, then I'd still date them, but it also depends on their reason for the crime. If a person keeps dark secrets for a long time, then the relationship is shot anyway.
 
Silentwolfdog said:
What about if they were in prison? Wouldn't you want to know if they were rapist or murderer at one time? Would you even date or marry them knowing this?
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Nope..I wouldnt put my children or myself in that danger.
 
Silentwolfdog said:
What about if they were in prison? Wouldn't you want to know if they were rapist or murderer at one time? Would you even date or marry them knowing this?
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I wouldnt want to date one nor marrying one. What if the guy do it again ? that put me and my son in danger.. thats scary thought.. no i wouldnt..

i am only interested in the person who would be there for me and be my best friend.. one that would do anything for you.. support you in good or bad times. i have yet to found one .. :(
 
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