Well I think also that a lot of their parents still have issues accepting their kids the way they are.....I see SO many parents who are still stuck in the greiving phrase that they didn't have a "healthy normal" kid. Your kid is dhh....SO WHAT? It's not this huge ultimate tragedy for crying out loud.
Your child can still acheive....and it's going to be just a part of who they are!
Not the biggest part, but a part! They are still going to be just like anyone else!
And many dhh kids probaly have behavoir problems b/c they are too overprogrammed with therapy and formal learning situtions....Also it's probaly b/c of the fact that many dhh kids are abused by their parents...(especially orally trained kids)....