but you're not. and I don't see any outrage from actual, real gay people 
and I believe you are being dishonest with yourself. you know why? looking at your post from other thread called "10 things you shouldn't say to a deaf person"... you said
well you're deaf and you don't get offended and bothered by it. then if you were gay.... you wouldn't get offended and bothered by it. heck - it'll probably make a good conversation starter for you! 