Oh yes... I have went thru that, and still does. Even with my boyfriend's family a little. My boyfriend is hearing... At least they are little better than my family. I know they are trying to involve me.. With my family. I've always felt left out, being ignored, the black sheep.. u name it. I've felt all thsi with them. I told my mom about how I felt. She said to me, "You need to talk more, and then you wouldnt be left out" I was like, what the f*ck!? I talked, you guys ignore me, when I keep pestering you guys to listen to me, u finally listen to me, only for 1 minute. Im tired of it. I dont feel like Im part of the family. She said nothing. Doesnt seem like she give damn about how I Feel, or about me... When I first met with my bf's parents... They are awesome, tried to talk with me, signing and writing paper, speaking clearly & slowly.. They sometime talk over my head... I let it go.. Because I realized, I cant really change that.. in any family. t o get them involve me. As much it hurts me, but oh well. But I can change that in my family in the future... like when I have my own children, and husband or boyfriend who's father of my baby(ies). then I'll change that... You got to realize that they are used to this... they dont even realize what they are doing, when they are caught up in converstation... Heck, we do that too... when we have one hearing person with bunch of deaifes. we chatted away, and didnt realize the hearing is being left out. It sucks, anyway.. 
