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well, I just thoughtful it is kinda of relate to these cutlure in somewhat....  don't u deaf ppl hate to be left out in the hearing family like whatever there is holiday like thanksgiving or x mas or easter day etc ...  all the family got together and u feel left out or get little informations from family what u want to know what they were talk about ...  i always ask my mom what are they talk about ??? she usually say wait then give me little informations ... but i found out there is more than that damn little informations which cause me piss offf and feel that i am not that important to be part of the family to know whats going on as i usually feel that i am the last person to know whats going on in the family ...  I was yell at everybody which it really upset me and i stopped talk or visit family for awhile as the family was puzzled and whats wrong with me and they keep call or come visit me and ask me why don't i come down to the family for holiday it is important to be family together ... I keep tell them they should know better than that they have to figure out what wrong with the family how they treat me like that ...  they didn't have any clue until one time i drop the huge bomb on them as they found out that something has happen to me long time ago as they didn't know about this and come confront me about this ... i said bloody about times it has been happen like two years ago or something and ur finally caught up ... they was like puzzled and said what do u mean ???  and i said u have to think harder what i mean by that and see how u treat me like that .. they said they don't like to be last person to know whats going on the family and i said BIIINNNGGGOOOOOO  they finally realize what they has done with me over the damn YYYEEAARRRSSSSS  and they finally gave me pretty much informations and we become close to each other which is good but still sneak round without having me know i ain't that stupid ...  my family want me to be with hearing gf and i told them helllooo nooooo thanks i rather deaf gf that connect with me and see how they feel about that .. they finally pick up the convesations and have us to be part of family which is good but better than nothing .. oh well..  LIB !


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