Well Fly made a GREAT posting here........ and let me say for instant here, I have noticed Hearies DON T even make any eye contacts unless forced to IMO, I had to deal with my bro in law who kept turning his head away and finally he realized to look at me more and then i noticed he shaved his beard ( trimmed it thinner) just so he can be understood which impressed me but his verbal abuse didn't..... anyway another story anyway......
the other thing is....... My mom says i talk to myself alot, and i said ihave a good reason for that it helps me foucus and see what i am doing considering being blind in one eye and helps me point out where i need to work on or what i need to fix or am doing wrong it helps me be a better person as well. when i was angry i never talked at all now when im angry i sign alot ot myself to vent myself out to de stress myself, which had i have Noticed helped alot. and like on my vacation i checked to make sure i had ALL my stuff with me before departing for airport I ALWAYS signed to myself its like making a imginary checklist and has helped me greatly. and not forget things.
some poeple see that as im weird when im not, all im doing is taking care of myself and if they see me as a wacko thats on them.... and i m the better person for that 
