One thing that ticks me is when people tell my dad when I go places with him that I have good speech and when I go home, he goes on and on about how my mother worked hard to make sure I have good speech and I feel like screaming at him "ENOUGH ALREADY!" and when I point out to him other parents have worked hard with thier children and yet they didn't pick up speech. He's like they didn't work as hard as my mother and I point out I had enough undistorted hearing that I was able to pick up speech, he goes on to tell me how grateful I should be. 
As far as I'm concerned any obbession with good speech is audism - especially with a lack of concern over if I can understand others around me.