Potty-Teaching Tips....

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Q, When's the right time to start teaching your child to use the potty?

When your child shows signs, emotionally and developmentally, that your child is ready....Here are some clues:: your child's diaper stays dry for several hours, your child knows ' bathroom ' words such as pee, poop, and wet or whatever terms your family uses....Your child's interested watching other family members use the toilet , If you see some of these behaviors, give it a go!...If not, hold off for a few more weeks, When your child is ready to learn, he/she will.... :P

Q, At what age are most children ready to try?

It varies widely...While 18-24 months is typical, some children may not be ready until even later.....

How exactly do I teach my child?

With lots of patience and a schedule....Most children tend to urinate or have a bowel movement a hour or so after a meal....Have your child sit on the potty soon after he/she's finished breakfast and again after dinner.....Make ' going potty ' fun , read a story together, play a game , or sing to your child....If your child's successful making a big deal out of it:: say something like , ' I'm so proud of you ' If nothing happens after ten minutes or if your child gets fidgety and wants to get up, put your child diaper back on, praise your child for trying and leave the bathroom together....The idea is to get your child used to a potty training....If you stick to the schedule every day, your child will get the hang out of it! :thumb:

Q, Should I get a floor potty or a ring for the toilet seat?

Try both, and see which one you and your child prefer, Many children want to use the ' big potty ' and a padded ring which attaches to a standard toilet, play into a sense of feeling grown up....Your child can put it on and take it off by him/herself, though you may want to keep a step stool in the bathroom...On the other hand, it's easier for children to get on and off a plastic floor potty....Remember, though:: Potty chairs need constant cleaning and rings don't...

Q, What will my child do first in potty?

Most likely number two, but there are plenty of children who learn to urinate first and children who learn to pee and poop at almost the same time....Look for signs that your child's about to go, grunting, making a face, so you can get your child to the bathroom in time....If you have a ' boy ', don't be surprised if he prefers to pee seated ( remind him to point his penis down ), which is easier than standing....

Q, I've heard girls learn to use the potty faster than boys do, true? How long does it take?

Girls tend to begin a few months earlier than boys, but every child, regardless of gender is different and learns at his/her own pace....Some 2 years olds may master the potty in just a couple of weeks, others may take several months or more....And that's only during the day, staying dry at night ususally takes even LONGER, a few weeks to many months....At night, your child has to hold urine for many hours, and if he/she's a deep sleeper, your child may not wake up when he/she feels the urge to pee....Be prepared for accidents by protecting your child's mattress with a waterproof sheet or mattress pad....

Q, How often should I remind my child to go?

Once your child had some success, ask serveral times a day, especially before you leave the house....Reminders help children get into a habit of thinking about the potty....

Q, Should I give out rewards? if so, what?

Experts say that positive verbal reinforcement is a major factor in successful toilet teaching, giving your little one praise or a hug for a jobwell done is a great idea! :)

Q, When should we start using training pants?

If your child has difficulty taking off his diaper to use the potty, switch to disposable training pants, they're easier for little hands to get on and off....While some parents think that putting a child is underwear will encourage him/her to use the toilet, experts say it doesn't have that effect if he/she isn't ready, the only result is dirty underwear...


No matter how well your child has adapted to toilet teaching, he/she'll undoubtedly have a few mishaps along the way....The best approach to handling them is to stay calm and make as little fuss as possible, even if you feel frustrated or embarrassed....Your child isn't doing it on purpose...Most often, a child doesn't make it to the bathroom on time because he/she's playing or distracted...If it's early in the teaching process, you might say ' Oh, your pants are wet, Let's change them ' NEVER punish a child or make him/her clean up his/her own mess, this could lead to long-term resistance...Take your child's potty seat with you when you leave home, using a familiar toilet may reduce accidents away from the home..... :)
 
Good Thread Sis.. I am So Glad my boys are done with Diapers.. heh!

Potty Train was hard on my 4 yrs old because he learned the Training at 3 (Later than Markus did).. Markus learned at 1 1/2 Yrs Old and he was done before he turns 2.
 
:applause: ***HUGS*** Angel, Great thread... :cuddle:

I'll check my sons's dairy & chart when/how eg....



Topic off...
I'll add this soon as my home computer to be repair done. (hopeful tomorrow)... then I can answer everything at your thread here & other threads.... It's alot for me to do... It's not possible for me to use the computer at work alot to answer every post here to neglect my job here.... *** careful*** :P
 
Excellent topic!! My first son was potty trained before he was even 2 years old. I do not know what happened, but I think he just got it out of the blue. :lol:

My second son is being potty trained right now. He knows what the toilet is for, and he often puts the ring on the toilet to tell me that it is time... sometimes when I put him on the ring. He won't go. :lol: I still praise him for trying and letting me know. I still keep at it with him everyday. :thumb: He'll get it someday!

My third son is too young for this. :rofl: He's only about 10 months old now. :lol:
 
Jordan learned Late because he scared of the Toliet he think he will fall Right into it.. he would just grabbed the seat and hold on Tight LOL!
 
When my kid was trained the potty.. I did let my kid know toilet is not bite you.. All can you try your best to use toilet.. I sat on my toilet and showned my child(s) same time my child sat on the trainned the potty.. It's works, Awesome! but pain my butt taking too long sitting.. :laugh2: Oh well, I deserved to be my experience challenge my child(s).
 
No, I didn´t train my children how to do with potty. I beleive is to let children to watch the example of their parents. That´s how I did.

I know what you all talking about but to me, "training" is sort of force.

I do simply is kept on tell my children. "Mummy has to go toilet". They followed me to see what I do with my business etc. (I don´t hide from them what I do with my business at toilet). I sign them with my hand on my nose "smelly" eg. I do the same with them when I change their diaper (nappy) to sign them with my hand on my nose "smelly". It helps them to convince what it´this.
My hubby do is sat on the toilet seat to show our children the example because we don´t want them to watch their Dad do as "fireman" because they can copy them to play as fireman..
It took them some months to realize what the toilet is for. They asked me themselves automaic to sit them on the toilet seat. They refused sit on the potty but adult toilet seat so we bought potty with 2 step to add on toilet seat. They likes it. They show us something with clue what they want to go toilet.

I do the same with my sons like that. It helps well.

I remind them before go to bed.

My 1st son is diaper (nappy) free when he was over 3 years old (he copied his baby brother - take him few months to realize that he's not baby :) )

My 2nd son is daper (nappy) free when he was under 3 years old.
 
My first son Austin is already potty trained, it wasn't that hard training him, actually. He picked it up right away. My hubby and I told him he's a big boy now and no more diapers.. we got him some new underwear of his favorites, Spiderman, Spongebob, Hulk.. He would get excited wearing big boy underwear..eh. We explained to him that its not a diaper and you dont pee or poop on there, pee or poop goes in the toilet.. after that he only had 2 accidents. He does pretty well overnight too.. stays dry, goes to the bathroom before bedtime and when he wakes up. We reminded him often to make sure he didn't forget, but then we didn't have to remind him anymore because he would always tell me or my Hubby he has to go potty and he goes up by himself. He's become independent going to the bathroom, I'd ask if he need me with him, he'd say no, I go by myself.. I said okayyy... eh!

My 2nd son isn't ready for potty training yet, he's only 16 months :D
 
With our kids i pretty much let them toilet-train themselves. I didn't at all push them but instead, when they began showing signs of readiness, then i started toilet training them. After they were daytime toilet trained i would still put diapers on them for bedtime, because they usually had occasional accidents. Just a double diaper and a pair of rubber pants. :Oops:
 
first all, Angel, great thread!!

My son is 3 yr old, doing potty trainer right now, he always wants diaper out and sit on potty trainer or toliet with trainer seat in it, but he always "HOLD" his pee/poops, urggh.. hopefully someday will. Good thing his school do training him too there. Hopefully he getting there soon!
 
SherryCherish said:
first all, Angel, great thread!!

My son is 3 yr old, doing potty trainer right now, he always wants diaper out and sit on potty trainer or toliet with trainer seat in it, but he always "HOLD" his pee/poops, urggh.. hopefully someday will. Good thing his school do training him too there. Hopefully he getting there soon!


Same to my 3 years old son.. He is getting better and he is wearing big boy pants.. No more diapers.. At night, he wears Nite pants when he go to bed.
 
that's great.. I'm glad to hear. But i did start pull up diaper on him.. he always tell me when he did pooped, he want to be changed, seem hes fussy. Sometime he don't weird boy.
 
My daughter was about 2 years old. I bought for her a "girl" baby doll that could "drink" from a bottle, and could also "pee". She and I would give the doll a drink from the bottle, then sit the doll on the little potty. The doll peed into the potty. Then my daughter copied. I led her to the potty first thing in the morning, several times during the day, and right before bedtime. She had it learned in a couple days. She needed a little help with the wiping up process for a while but everything else was fine. She learned to empty her "pot" into the big toilet, and pull her panties up. (She didn't always look "neat" after but she was proud to do it herself. :) ) She wore cotton "training" pants but no more diapers, and never any "Pull-ups" (they weren't invented yet). If she had an "accident" it was better for her to feel the wetness so that it would be an uncomfortable reminder to use the potty. We would just calmly clean up and change her clothes. Very few accidents happened. We just did everything with a calm, easy, no-big-deal attitude.

I notice there seems to be a tendency for children to be potty trained at an older age now. Most kids used to be using the potty between ages 18 months - 2 years. Now, I hear many moms saying that their kids still use Pampers and Pull-Ups until they are 3 or 4 years old. I guess the disposable diaper companies are happy about that.
 
Cheri said:
Jordan learned Late because he scared of the Toliet he think he will fall Right into it.. he would just grabbed the seat and hold on Tight LOL!
same thing :cry:
 
My Son, Sean he sure have a hard time going to bathroom.. i explained him that he have a little toilet in the bathroom whatever he need to go.. mostly he don't do that but when he go take bath he wouldn't go potty in bathtrub.. he would get up and get himself sit on the toliet.. i come in and i was like what are u doing u are dripping sean would said.. me pooop i was like oh sean said GO i was ok im leaving.. that's good for him to start to learn to not poop in the bathtub. Someday he will get tired of diapers.. i have his little underwears if he make it.
 
SherryCherish said:
first all, Angel, great thread!!

My son is 3 yr old, doing potty trainer right now, he always wants diaper out and sit on potty trainer or toliet with trainer seat in it, but he always "HOLD" his pee/poops, urggh.. hopefully someday will. Good thing his school do training him too there. Hopefully he getting there soon!

SherryCherish, my wife was telling me recently that whem her sons (three boys from a previous marriage) were at the point/stage that your child is right now, she had the idea of pouring a little warm water down their lower tummies which made them go potty and the learning process went a little faster. Hehehe
 
Tousi said:
SherryCherish, my wife was telling me recently that whem her sons (three boys from a previous marriage) were at the point/stage that your child is right now, she had the idea of pouring a little warm water down their lower tummies which made them go potty and the learning process went a little faster. Hehehe
I have heard of that also.
 
really very interesting.. i will try do that.. Suggest/advice would helpful. TOUSI, thank you!!
 
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