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FreeWoman77

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RebelGirl made the thread about good one and I start wondering what would u do with poor one and how would u treat ur kids?? have u got poor report card before what was ur parents about it?

<got 2, 3, 4 too but improved alot lately :D parents treated me like nothing same act when I got good report card so at graduation exam I wasnt worrying I knew they wouldnt be disappointed but I did well and made them proud ;)
I would do encouraging/talking to my girls instead of punishing them
 
:confused: which thread Rebelgirl created?

Yes I'm with you, FreeWoman77...

No matter either my boys got good or bad report but they alway have my support. I praised them for try their best to improve their grade... They will have my support if they got bad report. I sit with them and have a good talk and convince them why school is important for their future education. I would never punish them over their bad report.

I have plenty of patience with my boys until they improve their school education. Danny got good report with good rate and then able to take Exam on 8th to 10th May for go to Economy & Business school this September.


Check this debate link why I disagree with mother who punish her daughter for poor grade.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=22006&highlight=spank
 
Yes, RebelGirl made her thread about her daughter, if I ask about poor one it looks :Offtopic: thought to make another thread here

I dont understand why have be good cuz to get scholarship? in my childhood I was good student seen others alot 2's no big deal for them nor parents disappointed they got graduated same I did anyway :dunno: but here in USA same?
 
well i would be disappointment, and knew something wrong with kids's grade, might not understand their schooling, or behave. so we have to change somehow to make it better alike tutors or, make one to one to understnd what's wrong. But will still give the reward to kids but not alots tho. Not want them to think of advantage to have reward if no matter. I will support them no matter what. I can't punish at them for it. Unless heard something real bad. I always proud of my kids...
 
It depends on the reason for the low grades.

Is the child really struggling and just can't "get it"?

Is the child lazy and not doing homework or studying?

Is the child having health problems that interfere with concentration? Hearing or vision problems? Allergies or medications that make concentration difficult?

Has the teacher given the parent any insight about what is happening in the classroom?

Is there something happening at home that is bothering the child?


Too many variables to give a simple answer.
 
Reba said:
It depends on the reason for the low grades.

Is the child really struggling and just can't "get it"?

Is the child lazy and not doing homework or studying?

Is the child having health problems that interfere with concentration? Hearing or vision problems? Allergies or medications that make concentration difficult?

Has the teacher given the parent any insight about what is happening in the classroom?

Is there something happening at home that is bothering the child?


Too many variables to give a simple answer.
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Agreed! :gpost:
 
A child trying struggle become good grade but turns it out not good grades..

That reason?
No...

how's bad grade ?
I will be very happy open and communcation w/my child and also discussion w/teacher. Will pending processing help their child's grade pull it up future again.

Depend on your child have..
A.D.D.
A.D.H.D
O.D.D.
Any kinds your child have..

Bear w/your child and show patience.. Learn work together..
Unless don't give a child cheat answer..
(chuckles)
 
yeah, i would understand if they got poor like ADHD and else but why some parents try them be good cuz? good benefit? to get scholarship? move grade up? will parents be called in meeting about their kids make parent disappoint or embarassement? sorry my bad explain cuz here n my home country are different there no such scholarship, alot not going to college or university but work right away after graduating at High school, some nothing but living with parents in same roof, nothing wrong/shame :aw:
 
Honestly, it's depends on really, if one of my children is stuggling in one or two of his classes, or if there's a problem that making him not get good grades, like something may bothering him etc, I usually talk to my boys first to ask them what was the reason for getting such a bad grade on their report card, and most of the time is usually about not understanding what the teacher is teaching and sometimes it takes awhile for them to learn and do better in their classes.....but if my children intend to keep getting bad grades than yeah, I'll be grounded them until they take their school works seriously and improves on their grades....


Sometimes children intend to get bad grades due to absenses, family problems or something going on with them that the parents are not aware of, before getting emotionally upset or angry at your child, be sure to ask questions in a calm manner to find out what cause your child to get bad grades, it can be anything really, it important to understand where your child is coming from before punishing them...
 
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