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what if paula used the term "mute" will she get fired?
Especially today , with all the technology we have. I never liked the woman and now I know why.
...you never liked her?...couldn't be because she said the "N" word...so guessing what you really mean is that you don't like her NOW.
The lady is 66 years old I believe (your age)...she's a very pretty woman and a fantastic cook....Do I like her? Yes, I do.
She apologized....and believe it was genuine...and the "N" word was very, very common back in her day. Now-a-days, it's taboo, same as the word "cracker" or "whitey"....
Words do slip from people's lips at times...we say things that we really don't mean...and an apology should suffix as long as you don't say it repeatedtly.
That's my take of it.
I doubt, one of worker at my old workplace called me "mute" because I had odd work performance to him, so I went reported to manager and co-manager so nobody fire him because they said "mute" is harmless, however I told them - not in case with deaf people.
Call N word will getting you fired, obviously.
There is a tremendous difference. The N-word is intended to be derogatory. Whereas "mute" is a common and functional word that people have chosen to be offended by.
As for Paula Deen that is somewhat surprising since she campaigned with the Obama's in 2008.
Believe "mute" is referring that you cannot speak...even I was called a "deaf mute" by my boss and I corrected him saying..."I'm deaf, yes, but not mute." (I have my speech)..."mute" has nothing to do with your work performance and if you had "odd work performance", then maybe you should have been the one that got fired...not your boss....I would never jump on the band wagon trying to get someone fired for that...it was a big misunderstanding on your part and you should have researched the word "mute" before reporting something like that.
I know about saying mute the TV isn't offensive, but saying deaf and mute is offensive to deaf people.
However, one of worker who called to me quitted after second week after he complained about not enough pay so I was like "WALMART LOW PAY" and get over it.
mute [ myoot ]
not speaking: unwilling or unable to speak
making no sound: saying nothing, or making no sound
not expressed in words: felt or expressed without speech
Synonyms: damper, silencer, muffler, softener
As I said, people chose to be offended by it but "mute" is not meant to be derogatory even when describing people who are unable to speak.
...you never liked her?...couldn't be because she said the "N" word...so guessing what you really mean is that you don't like her NOW.
The lady is 66 years old I believe (your age)...she's a very pretty woman and a fantastic cook....Do I like her? Yes, I do.
She apologized....and believe it was genuine...and the "N" word was very, very common back in her day. Now-a-days, it's taboo, same as the word "cracker" or "whitey"....
Words do slip from people's lips at times...we say things that we really don't mean...and an apology should suffix as long as you don't say it repeatedtly.
That's my take of it.
It's good she apologized. But I really think she got dumped since she developed diabetes and became a walking billboard for what that high fat, high sugar diet will do for you.
This was just the excuse.
what if paula used the term "mute" will she get fired?