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DeafMonkey

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Any of you have hard time with your teenager kids that tried to her/him clam down while she or he scream alots wont clam down??

Today my ex boyfriend and I went over my mom's home to help my ex boyfriend to figure it out to move out then planning my mom drop us off to my home and that my youngest sister who is 16 yrs old that got jump and scream so LOUD!! so her boyfriend tried to clam her down but didnt work so my mom came down to hold her like a hug her within tight to make her clam down for about one hour and I asked my 2nd sister what is going on and is that her boyfriend and she broke up? then she said " I DONT KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON AND I JUST GOT HOME!!!!" I aint like my 2nd sister which she is bitch :lol: ... my ex bf and I have to wait till my sister to clam down and I have to stay on the door to make sure not let my youngest sister to ran away and my mom tried to tell her but she yelled at my mom to said " LEAVE ME ALONE!!! LET ME GO!!!!!!" then later on my ex boyfriend tried to tell her but she said to him " DONT TALK TO ME!! DONT TALK TO ME!! DONT TALK TO ME!! and then it got my mom cried too even my youngest sister is cried too which I have no idea what is going on till she got clam down and still upsetting then my mom pick us up and my sister too then drop us off at my home and I asked my mom is that her boyfriend and her is broke up? and she said yeah ahhh no wondered why my youngest sister yelled so LOUD!!!!! I am sure she love her boyfriend so much.

It really first time ever I see that my sister was scream so hard LOUD!!!! now she is still upsetting and hurt. I have really no idea what is going on and it make me think maybe from the rumours from her friends or sound like someone is jealous I have no idea. Tomorrow I will ask my mom if is my youngest sister doing fine ?

I know it is illegal the ages that my sister is 16 yrs old and her ex boyfriend is 19 yrs old.


Have you hard time with your teenagers kid?
 
um no I dont since I dont have any teenagers around here. Especially my good friend that has a teenager which his parents have hard time dealing with his hyper.
 
PurrMeow said:
um no I dont since I dont have any teenagers around here. Especially my good friend that has a teenager which his parents have hard time dealing with his hyper.
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yeah she was out of control and want to ran away but my mom wont let her ran away cause I think she want get her ex boyfriend back I wasnt sure of it. It is so scare me cause I never see that what she act out of control before it make me :ugh: :ugh: not " ugh" just like that face it scare me and it scare my mom, my other sister and my ex boyfriend. After my mom drop me and my ex bf off at my home and later my ex boyfriend told me that he got bad dream about my youngest sister. Oh man it never see what she act out of control in my life!!! cause my other 2 sisters dont act out of control like my youngest sister. oh yikes!!
 
Wow, I hope I don't go thru that with my children... :ugh2:
 
^Angel^ said:
Wow, I hope I don't go thru that with my children... :ugh2:
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yeah .. I am sure my mom having hard time to get sleep last night and also I just conerned (spelling) on my youngest sister not to ran away while my mom and my 2nd sister sleeping last night. I am sure she will stay at home not in high school cause not want to show them how her feeling very upsetting that got broke up from her ex boyfriend. I really have no idea why they broke up came from. yesterday Morning I saw her and her ex boyfriend was at my home with my mom cause I was called my mom in emengery which my ex boyfriend's blood sugar was low and refused drink to make his blood goes up then later in the night time just happened to see that my youngest sister was out of control really badly almost one hour till finally clam down and my mom took her to drive around to make her clam down. I hope so she is doing okay now as I will call my mom tonight to make sure my youngest sister doing okay today.
 
TweetyBird said:
yea i see some teenager do that.. gee! it hard on parents too
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Yah, .. it first time ever I see it oh yikes. If she find new boyfriend and later if broke up again I hope so she not to get out of control again.
 
Hi, I had two step Teenage kids. Amy was 13 year old and moved with me. I didnt have any experience to handle with her. I learned how do that. it was not easy at all. But Amy and I got so good along. She become teenager, It was big challage for me. She was very good girl. She was 18 years old, she decide to move out. Nick was 16 years old and moved with us because he had serious problem. I didnt know his problem at first. He rebell me and he dont do chores. He was very bad boy at school. I had hard time handle him. I learned so much about that. I had to kick him out when he is 18. I dont care if he live in a street. He was shoplifting in the store, He got caught that he did firework. He brought his weed pipe to his school and school caught him. Big dumb! He refuse find job that we told him to find job. He sat and watch tv all day. We made him go find job but he went to friends's house. He got kicked out from his school because he stabbed a student's lap with sisscors. He said he just goofing around but i dont know if I believe him because school said he did on purpose. I am really ready for my son Wesley to be teenager because I know how handle teenager. He is only 8 years old. My husband and I never hurt Nick. We gave him many punishment lots.

Now Nick live in street but he has a job, He stay many place if he can. He told us that he is going army next month. He said he learned big mistake that we kicked him out. He wanted us take him but we said no. He will learn so much from Army! He will realize that We were so good parent to him.
 
:ugh: hopefully that my children are good kid but still teenager driving me nuts..

but have to patience and stay firm w/my two teenagers... actually Pre-teen.. of course..
Kept pressure my red button.. I must stay firm and say no.. if refused... fine w/me..

Always come back and say sorry to me.. You're right mom.. blah blah.. Actually I know all my guts... as long make sure they must respect my house rules.. PEROID.. no change...

If don't like house rules.. May your teenager gonna be gone for jail or happending...
Keep contuine Education them... open communcation... Make sure understand each together...

***important key***

Patience and LOVE... only the way...

I do love my older son.. I made my decision best for him.. GO PROJECT DARE CAMP.. "sort of displince" simlair alike boot camp.. but not boot camp... Reason why He kept contuine not follow my rules and hang around wrong crowd...

He got into trouble and gone jail few times... I did made propsal judge.. best for him to go Project Dare Camp instead go prision (Teenager prision).. Judge agrees me.. Which it's good thing... He staying there for 4 months.. He knew, He did wrong thing.. but have to accept it...
Few days ago, I contacted w/my older son via vp... He telling me.. He love it there and awful lot activities and 7 days school.. pretty strict lot.. and spoke w/staff... explained me he seems improved little bit at time.. Which It's good news that starting!! I have not see him since 1 month and half.. almost on the way 2 month incoming up...
 
^Angel^ said:
Wow, I hope I don't go thru that with my children... :ugh2:
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Oh Angel sweetie you will we all have our moments and you can't just pass it up I have to admit somedays i do just get mad out of the blue there might be something deeper you'll never know i guess
 
Deaf Monkey, I just want to make this short.. You are not only one who going through that.. I am going through that too.. Amelia is now 13 and Mack is soon 12.. both are really.. I cant say a word.. been hurtful and frustrated with them..

just hang in there and try help your mom if can.. maybe.. take your sister out for have dessert or pop.. something can cool her down.. give your mom some peace for little bit..

so you can be big sister support your family.. :)

huggs.
 
DoofusMama said:
Deaf Monkey, I just want to make this short.. You are not only one who going through that.. I am going through that too.. Amelia is now 13 and Mack is soon 12.. both are really.. I cant say a word.. been hurtful and frustrated with them..

just hang in there and try help your mom if can.. maybe.. take your sister out for have dessert or pop.. something can cool her down.. give your mom some peace for little bit..

so you can be big sister support your family.. :)

huggs.
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yeah :) .. My mom took her last night to drive around in her car to drive till clam her down but now she is doing fine now :)
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GOOD NEWS!!!!!!!!!!! yayay whew!!!!! I was worry about my youngest sister from last night that she got out of control really badly. So I talked to my mom recntly (sp) that I asked her how is my youngest sister go ? and she said my youngest sister is doing fine now and still together with her boyfriend as I thought broke up but nope still together whew it scare me and my ex boyfriend last night.

Last night when my ex boyfriend sleeping and I woke him up as he asked me to wake him up for his meds and he told me that he had bad dream about my youngest sister that my youngest sister took the kinfe and stabbed his chest then she shocked that she stabbed him and then the alblumbe (spelling) rush bring him to hospital in right away and then police asked him charge her or what? then He said to police that he forgive her ( my youngest sister). that it

I have bit bad dream and something werid in my dream today in the morning that I went to the basement to find out on papers like a mystery what is going on with my youngest sister and her boyfriend got broke up but it supesct (spelling) that they are back together it make me hmmmmm so I checking in the basement to find out on paper till my mom or my 2nd sister or other person which I dont know who that came downstair to the basement and I was so QUICK to hide the papers and said HI! to the person then they gone back to upstair and I looked again on paper then later the persom come back downstair to the basement then I quick to hide the papers again. and then see my youngest sister and her boyfriend walk around together. That it! it make me feel werid :lol:

But I am glad they are still together whew whew whew whew!!!!!! as my mom told me that they are working it out yayay glad they are still together whew!!!! I dont want to see again to scare me ! lol :lol:
 
I went thru with my boys, now they are adult. Umm, yes very tough to be parent to have teenager. From my own experience, each level of teen year are different . Worst age I ever deal with my kids were 14 and 17. It may had to do with hormones, they went thru. Girls and boys are somewhat different on emotional level. My boys were grrr when they turned 17, got more trouble than ever because they acted so stupid, for some reason. And they costed me alot money. It is not easy for any teen to deal real life stress, many of them are not mature to deal with many issues at certain age. It will be okay once your sister learn how to handle her own emtional and all kind of pressure she will faces.
 
jazzy said:
I went thru with my boys, now they are adult. Umm, yes very tough to be parent to have teenager. From my own experience, each level of teen year are different . Worst age I ever deal with my kids were 14 and 17. It may had to do with hormones, they went thru. Girls and boys are somewhat different on emotional level. My boys were grrr when they turned 17, got more trouble than ever because they acted so stupid, for some reason. And they costed me alot money. It is not easy for any teen to deal real life stress, many of them are not mature to deal with many issues at certain age. It will be okay once your sister learn how to handle her own emtional and all kind of pressure she will faces.
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yah my sister is doing fine now and it working out with her boyfriend now :) Glad it working it out whew cause I like to see they are good couple together :lol:
 
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