A gorgeous man in a three piece business suit, a Porsche, a mansion in California, a villa in Tuscany and a fookin' lousy attitude has no luck getting a wonderful gal compared to a guy in a wheelchair with a wonderful attitude. It doesn't matter if the wheelchair bound man is on SSI/SSDI or even capable of owning his own business, it all boils down to attitude and personality. We all want a good heart, personality and heck good looks would be nice but we all know it goes away at the long run.
