On the idea of what defines a person ... I have given it some thought and, personally, I don't think I can come up with anything that defines me. I have defining moments in my life - discovering passions, getting married, having kids, being diagnosed as FMS - but each moment only defined me in a certain context during a particular time. Sure, people are free to define me as they see me but I don't think I can definitively define myself. I guess maybe I feel like once I define myself, I am limiting my ability or capacity to change, evolve or grow to be my best at any particular time of my life. I don't know for sure 
but it is good food for thought for me. Thanks.
