In some ways I do experience the same thing except I was born deaf. I have a few "gifts" taken away from me, and it let me learn what is important to me.
Anyway, like you I do need to find more social opportunities. I am serious considering relocate to larger deaf community for better social opportunities.
I dont know where you are in Minnesota, I know there is deaf community in St. Pauls and Twin Cities--at least that's what I heard.
