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Something happened today with me. I was talking to my friend and somehow my friend got pissed off at me for having my friend visit me on Thanksgiving which I wanted my friend to trust me with my another friend. But I explained my friend and my friend seems misunderstand my feelings and I wanted my friends to trust me with everything which I wont make miskates and I already knew what I do want in my future and in my heart also, my friend seems not believe in me and also it almost made me want to leaving my friend for not admit to work it out with me, I wanted my friend to admit to work it out with me so I wont be obessed abt it and angry abt it and also I wanted my friend to stop obessed abt my another friend. Its not even fair, I let my friend do anything whatever my friend want to but my friend dont let me? Eh? I trust my friend WITH MY HEART, LIFE, SOUL. Why cant my friend do same thing with me? Why cant my friend let me learn my miskates in the past and I can learn abt them in the future and I wouldnt make that same mikates? Please any of you can help me? I wanted my friend to understand my feelings and accept it. Please give me any advices. :ty:
 
Ahh.. Does not sound like a true friend to me.

Unforutanely in your life, you will have friends that you don't realize that they are not your true friends. It seems to me that it happens to be one of those.

Your friend will have to accept the consquences that you have made your own decisions, not your friend. This person can not run or make decisions for you.

Good Luck!
 
i agree with downing, seem that your angry friend have some issues to work out by itself. YOU should not be deal with this...you should tell her if you dont like me hang out with other friends than you then you have to deal with it and it not like I would only rely on ONE friend.
 
downing said:
Ahh.. Does not sound like a true friend to me.

Unforutanely in your life, you will have friends that you don't realize that they are not your true friends. It seems to me that it happens to be one of those.

Your friend will have to accept the consquences that you have made your own decisions, not your friend. This person can not run or make decisions for you.

Good Luck!
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Thank you, but I just need to know what to do with my friend thats all. My friend is great person and I just wanted my friend to accept thats it.
 
Shiva said:
i agree with downing, seem that your angry friend have some issues to work out by itself. YOU should not be deal with this...you should tell her if you dont like me hang out with other friends than you then you have to deal with it and it not like I would only rely on ONE friend.
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I know, but I just wanted my friend to see how much I want to see my another friend. Also, I wanted my friend to understand how i feel and accept this.
 
Don't let your friend expecting you all the time w/your friend like krazy glue..

All you wanted to be fair for everyone and take turns to pay visits your another friend.. Nothing wrong...

I think your friend being selfish and want you all the time.. not let you go over another friend.. Totally wrong!

I think your friend has something wrong.. and try encourge them go ahead another friend have fun.. While you busy hung around other friend.. Hopefully works..

Excellent choice what Downing said..
 
yes but if your friend is "hard head" and being too stubborn that your friend wont accept the way you want to have other friends hang out with your friend. One way is talk to your friend in person if she/he wont listen then you may have to be little bit harsh toward to your friend and it may wake up your friend however it a risk of losing a friend. Maybe you should ask your friend WHY she/he dont want you to have other friends to hang out with you and him/her. IT only way to find out the real reason why she/he act like that to you. I concern that really selfish of your friend doing this to you. However this friend you talk about may have problem with other friend that you try to introduce which YOU didnt know about. Something like that.
 
Bullym0m said:
Don't let your friend expecting you all the time w/your friend like krazy glue..

All you wanted to be fair for everyone and take turns to pay visits your another friend.. Nothing wrong...

I think your friend being selfish and want you all the time.. not let you go over another friend.. Totally wrong!

I think your friend has something wrong.. and try encourge them go ahead another friend have fun.. While you busy hung around other friend.. Hopefully works..

Excellent choice what Downing said..
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I do agree with you, I wanted to know how to making my friend to wake up eh... Its very hurt me that my friend showed me already that my friend dont EVEN trust me with my another friend eh, whats going on? Is my friend jealous or what?? Ugh... Thank you for your helping, Im very enjoy it. Same everybody who post in here an try to help me and Im really enjoy with that.
 
Shiva said:
yes but if your friend is "hard head" and being too stubborn that your friend wont accept the way you want to have other friends hang out with your friend. One way is talk to your friend in person if she/he wont listen then you may have to be little bit harsh toward to your friend and it may wake up your friend however it a risk of losing a friend. Maybe you should ask your friend WHY she/he dont want you to have other friends to hang out with you and him/her. IT only way to find out the real reason why she/he act like that to you. I concern that really selfish of your friend doing this to you. However this friend you talk about may have problem with other friend that you try to introduce which YOU didnt know about. Something like that.
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How can I to be little bit harash toward to my friend?? :( I just wanted my friend to accept me being with my any friends, I just wanted my friend to trust me with my friend's heart and know that I wont make any miskates. Geez, It've been annoying me since last night which it really hurts me. Thank you, Shiva.
 
:) I agree with what everybody so far has said Sweetheart. I really feel you should follow your heart, and go with the plans that you want to go with. Your friend isn't a true friend if they hold you back, and not let you do the things you want to do. Important thing, is there has to be trust, lots of trust. No matter what mistakes have been made in the past, we always learn from our mistakes, and move on. It seems like your friend doesn't know how to put their best foot forward.

You should go and be with your other friend at Thanksgiving, and just have a good time. Don't dwell on the past, move on. Have a great time, and don't worry about what your friend is feeling, focus on yourself, and realize how so very important your life is to you.

Good luck, and remember, you are number 1, you come first, and this is your life to do what you want.
 
How old is your angry friend, Sweetheart? Sounds like she's jealous. Hope you two can work it out!
 
RebelGirl said:
How old is your angry friend, Sweetheart? Sounds like she's jealous. Hope you two can work it out!
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Shes only 21 yrs old which shes little more than 3 months older than I am. I just wanted her to understand my feelings thats it.
 
CODAchild said:
:) I agree with what everybody so far has said Sweetheart. I really feel you should follow your heart, and go with the plans that you want to go with. Your friend isn't a true friend if they hold you back, and not let you do the things you want to do. Important thing, is there has to be trust, lots of trust. No matter what mistakes have been made in the past, we always learn from our mistakes, and move on. It seems like your friend doesn't know how to put their best foot forward.

You should go and be with your other friend at Thanksgiving, and just have a good time. Don't dwell on the past, move on. Have a great time, and don't worry about what your friend is feeling, focus on yourself, and realize how so very important your life is to you.

Good luck, and remember, you are number 1, you come first, and this is your life to do what you want.
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I agreed with you. Thank you :)
 
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