My parents blame me?

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They are hurt my feel. Cuz I told them I am confused what they saying to me... Why they are upset with me? I told they cuz I am deaf is diffirent hearing... I wish move out of them... I would like living with my older sister. Cuz She believe I am deaf and hard understand with hearing... She knew that I wish have deaf family. I am close got it. But my real father was not married to my real mother. I must blame to my real father. But he is gone not see me for 22 yrs. My real father's parnets are deaf. Damn it. I want living with them. I will going job and get car leave them. I am going with my sister's house. I did visit her for two month. I love her and she love me. When I am arrive home. My sister go cried cuz she do not want me with my parnet...

My parnets are my grandparnets.
my grandmother's daughter is my real mother.
My grandmother never tell me what happen.
I thank to my sister Shannen is care me growup. And she tell me turst me... I really mad at my grandmother. Sometime grandfather. I hate grandfather always mad me with no reason...
I am sick of them... I will try have more money and car leave them...:thumbd:
 
okay, i read ur story abt this.. if u are older over 18 yrs old, u can move out anytime u wanna.. if u wanna live with ur sis. then DO IT! i dont like that grandparents dont tell u the truth what happened in the past.. they are wrong! i am glad that ur sis told u the truth! whew!!! i think better for u move out and better life urself.. if u feel in ur heart which the best for u!!! :)
 
I looked at your profile and you are 22. That says a lot, if you're in a situation in which you are not happy with, you have every right to leave it - because you are an adult. (Other circumstances put aside, that is.) You're an adult, and not to sound mean but if you really want something, you should quit complaining and do it. Sitting and crying about it wont help you, trust me, I know.
 
pinkster said:
I looked at your profile and you are 22. That says a lot, if you're in a situation in which you are not happy with, you have every right to leave it - because you are an adult. (Other circumstances put aside, that is.) You're an adult, and not to sound mean but if you really want something, you should quit complaining and do it. Sitting and crying about it wont help you, trust me, I know.
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yea i agree with u for this! *AMEN*
 
Yeah -- if you're over 18 -- you're free to move out and live on your own. Just have to look around and find a place where you can afford and maybe try to find a deaf person to be a roommate where you plan on living, etc. That'll help with the rent and general bills that living in an apartment will generate. :)
 
I don't understand what you're saying, but i do understand what it's like to get yelled at from parents when you can't understand what they're saying because you don't hear them. People can be bastards that way; they degrade you and make you feel like a child, and it hurts.

My mother did this to me yesterday in the car when i asked her to repeat something and she screamed, "YOU DON'T HAVE YOUR HEARING AIDS IN, DO YOU? WHY NOT?" and i shrugged, and she turned to me and said as slowly as possible...something i don't remember, lol. I understand that on my part i should have worn them, but that doesn't give her the right to yell at me. Nor does it give anybody the right to yell at anyone when you don't hear something. It's such a piss off sometimes, eh?
 
Myself, raised by my grandparents as legal guardians since I was 3 days old. Oh my, they and I have much conflicts over clothes, manner, etc.. Made me feel like I have to live in their 1940's/1950's. Have to wait till I graduated from high school. Go to college and/or join my friend as roomate are my best solutions. They scolded over me for stupid reasons. they and I have lackness of communcation. Not want to deal with their old fashioned ways.

They cannot stop me from moving out cuz I am over 18. I do love my grandparents but living issues, forgot it!
 
Yeah. I have no job and car. Now my parnets come to me say to me SORRY! I told them. Do not again. If they doing again I am leave over my friend. But I cant leave my love pets... Try my better save money for leave...
 
Zericsrats said:
Yeah. I have no job and car. Now my parnets come to me say to me SORRY! I told them. Do not again. If they doing again I am leave over my friend. But I cant leave my love pets... Try my better save money for leave...
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Have you tried to get a VR (Vocational Rehabiliation) counselor? VR can help you find jobs and other issues you may have. Or the local job search service centre -- if there's any available in Las Vegas.
 
I also am sure you can use the public transportation for the time being to get around town, hey? I did when I lived in Los Angeles for 3 years. First year, I had to use public transportation until I got my car from Northern California --
 
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