My Dad

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My Dad is profoundly and clinically deaf. He started to lose his hearing when he was in his early 20's and while he attended College. He was going to College to be a minister. He has what is called "progressive inner ear nerve damage" which meant that, his hearing was once corrected by the use of hearing aids .. but progressively worsened to the point of becoming deaf.

I have the same thing - except - I began losing my hearing at the age of four. There is a distinct difference between my father and I. For one thing, I was never cut out to be a minister :giggle: . Another thing ... I learned ASL. His brother, my uncle, also lost his hearing at about the same time my father did (it is a hereditary condition). My niece, however, lost her hearing at the age of 4 (like me).

then, my sister began losing her hearing at the age of 32. So ... none of us were "born deaf".

Anyways, my uncle decided to get bilateral cochlear implants a couple of years ago. for him, the results were amazing. He can hear better than his wife, and he understands speech better than most hearing people. Again, I am asserting here, that he was not born deaf, and learned speech from an early age and did not begin to lose his hearing until his 20's. He was accustomed to sound from memory (unlike a person whom was born deaf).

So .... my dad made the decision to also get bilateral cochlear implants. He was just approved for the procedure and has an appointment at Emory in a couple of weeks to discuss the procedure with a surgeon.

He used to play the piano and sing. He was a minister. Even as he lost all of his hearing, he would still play music because he could read music ... but he hasn't even glanced at a piano in over a decade. Now though .. that he was approved ... I can see that little glimmer in his eyes again.

Before what I said is misinterpreted ... no, he did not become sullen and depressed when he became deaf .... he missed the ability to hear.
 
Music ... as in songs you'll hear on the radio a lot of times seem noisy with a CI because the instruments drown out the vocals but with something as clear and as simple as just a piano playing he would benefit greatly from a CI as long as it sets right and works well with him everyone responds differently. It will take time but he would be able to enjoy it again and should go far in his ministry. Good luck to your dad and there's several on here with a CI so maybe we can answer questions for you if he has any.
 
that be great doing his music again I love good happy endings
 
Stien, Thats exactly what I have and thanks for the insight with CI because hearing aids dont really work for me anymore ( besides being broke now) Since my last Audi has been bouncing around so much I decided to search for another and hopefully better and go from there.
 
Stien, Thats exactly what I have and thanks for the insight with CI because hearing aids dont really work for me anymore ( besides being broke now) Since my last Audi has been bouncing around so much I decided to search for another and hopefully better and go from there.

Mike just out of curiosity I check craigslist now and then for hearing aids for sale. I do see them in there. I know you look for other stuff on there.
Also there are hearing techs out there that may not be audiologists but they know what they are doing. It may not be the best thing but what the hey. Just helpful thoughts. You know you get results when you focus on stuff. A pair of used Phonaks can be found. It is amazing how those things can be adjusted to bring in up close sound and make it understandable.
 
I would miss music most of all - if "most of all" could be so narrowly defined. I'd miss many things: the wind, the sound of rain, my family, hearing animals....I think it's wonderful that you're father has decided to go this route and I wish the best. I hope it lives up to his expectations and then some....

Laura
 
This is an adult, making an adult decision, to have an elective surgery. Absolutely the best case scenario for all of the CI stories. I shudder at the infant implantations, but let's keep this thread focused on your dad. Plenty of other threads to beat the "CI-Infant-implanted" dead horse.

Hope his procedure goes well, and he regains what he has been missing for all these years. Might there be a video of activation?
 
He found out his insurance is paying 80% of the surgery and the remaining balance will be $6,500 per ear. :eek3:

He will have more updates next week.

And yes, I would like there to be a video of the activation .. that would be stellar.
 
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