Does the destruction of a spaceship, be it some imaginary ship or the shuttle Challenger not mean the ship and all inhabitants are dead, in a literal sense? Whether imaginative or real, those games only mirror what humans already know, death is real.
Video games are really only interactive literature. If you argue all literature is bad then there would be no books. I can think of a few books that I think should be banned, but that wouldn't solve the problem. The solution is not censorship, it is counter literature.
If we write games to counter other games then there would be balance.
