I am not the actual Californian. I am originally from New Jersey. Please remember that.
I can see that the South is different from so many freaking states all over because they are Confederate states. Common sense! If you love your state and don't hate black people, remove that stupid flag of yours and learn to accept the change. It's not that hard.
I am really concerned if you fly this flag outside your home. You could have been hurt or killed. Don't think they will not do anything to you or your family. It's time for you to think about it, even though you have rights to do so. Like I said before, times change.