I found that while I was in process of coming out-and for me it was definitly a process
One day I think I like men, the next day women, the day after I liked both. Eventually, when I just kinda let go of my (fears?) obsession of needing to figure it out-it sorted itself out. And it sorted me into exactly who I am-a gay woman-and all was okay with me. 
Most of us struggle at some point with our sexuality...especially if you tend to tip toward the gay side. It can be scary.
Follow your heart-it will sort itself out for you, like it has for many gay folk.
