Marriage and Job Overshift

[Pinky]

How do you feeling about your husband/wife work at second shift and third shift?

I really hate to have a problem with relationship and marriage for job at over shift. Please do not preach on me. Just give a good advice and tips. I need to express out my feeling and emotion. I have a problem with family. Because of my step dad is dying.

 

[lumbingmi]

Why can't you get a job? If you can't drive, you could use bus or have someone drive you to job.

btw, sorry about your step dad. I lost my step dad to cancer 10 yrs ago.

 

[Bottesini]

My husband works from 3 to 11;30 pm. One advice is sleep on his schedule if you can. Wait until he comes home to go to bed.

We like the hours because stores are less crowded. And he also has his days off in the middle of the week. It is less stressful to do shopping and go to a restaurant when there are less people out.

 

[Pinky]

Why can't you get a job? If you can't drive, you could use bus or have someone drive you to job.

btw, sorry about your step dad. I lost my step dad to cancer 10 yrs ago.

I don't have a job because of economy problem. It's very slow business. I am going to school in Jan. I had ride on bus to work many times. Now I don't have job. It's hard for me because I am deaf and retina. I never get success from High School.

 

[Pinky]

My husband works from 3 to 11;30 pm. One advice is sleep on his schedule if you can. Wait until he comes home to go to bed.

We like the hours because stores are less crowded. And he also has his days off in the middle of the week. It is less stressful to do shopping and go to a restaurant when there are less people out.

My husband work at 4 until 2. I don't think it will help him to go sleep. Because He wanted to watch tv programs from DVR. He fall slept on the chair. He can't go to bed. I told him many times to go sleep with me in bed when he get home. He said he really hungry and want to watch tv. It's frustrated to me.

 

[shel90]

My husband worked 2 jobs for 2 years...40 hours during the week and 20 hours on the weekends..it was tough but I knew it was temporary. Is this temporary? If so, then just have to sit tight and be supportive. If this is permanment, then tell him how you feel but dont be demanding or clingy. Just inform him that u miss him and wonder if there are other times when he is off that you can spend together. Maybe make a date with him once a month or something like that?

 

[Pinky]

My husband worked 2 jobs for 2 years...40 hours during the week and 20 hours on the weekends..it was tough but I knew it was temporary. Is this temporary? If so, then just have to sit tight and be supportive. If this is permanment, then tell him how you feel but dont be demanding or clingy. Just inform him that u miss him and wonder if there are other times when he is off that you can spend together. Maybe make a date with him once a month or something like that?

No, My husband has been work for 4 years. It's very suffer because his sister's ex husband work with my husband. I really hate my sister in the law's ex husband! Because he made everyone to hate my husband for stupid reason. They treated my husband to do sweep every late nights. I am very concern with my husband's suffer with stress, depress, and headache. I hope for him to find a new job to make him happy. He need to stay away from bastard man's control my husband's life!

I really need my husband so badly! I am not going to leave him. I really love and caring about him!

That's good idea go out date with him for one day. We need to make a plan on schedule if he is not busy. His last class on Dec 11. He will have an exam for first semester. He will go back to school for new semester in Jan. I am hope for him get a new JOB! He said the problem is economic right now.